Nancy B Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 So I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks. We take it in turns to choose the date. We've had sex and everything is going well. I am very indecisive and laid back, he is more decisive and wants to plan dates in advance. We were meant to have a date yesterday. I chose an activity which needed good weather. Well we had a storm and I had no plan b and an already hectic day so I canceled. We were texting and it took ages for us to decide whether to cancel, what to do. He said it was becoming a headache. I had drinks with friends and called him when I got home. He said his tone in the texts was joking. We sort of argued about the days events - who canceled what, who said this, who meant that. He text me soon after to say he still liked me which was sweet. We're meeting tonight. But I'm disappointed. Is this silly argument a bad sign?
todreaminblue Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 So I've been dating a guy for a couple of weeks. We take it in turns to choose the date. We've had sex and everything is going well. I am very indecisive and laid back, he is more decisive and wants to plan dates in advance. We were meant to have a date yesterday. I chose an activity which needed good weather. Well we had a storm and I had no plan b and an already hectic day so I canceled. We were texting and it took ages for us to decide whether to cancel, what to do. He said it was becoming a headache. I had drinks with friends and called him when I got home. He said his tone in the texts was joking. We sort of argued about the days events - who canceled what, who said this, who meant that. He text me soon after to say he still liked me which was sweet. We're meeting tonight. But I'm disappointed. Is this silly argument a bad sign? I dont think so silly arguments are not a sign ..... a huge all and all row might be a sign.....i wouldnt even say a sort of argument can be classified as an argument......it is impossibel to agree on everything relationships werent meant to be a case fo that i would worry more if you didnt have disagreements.....means something isnt being said by soemone....men and women actually do think differently.... and that could snowball.....in my opinion anyway.......best wishes and many make up sessions....;0).....deb
dasein Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 Conducting plans via text is not a good idea in the early going and is bound to result in misunderstandings. Call on the phone and get everything hashed out in one call if plans are to be changed, then stick to the changed plans. Many men, self included, get fed up with flaky women who are constantly changing plans, and it can cause us to carry baggage and judge future relationships accordingly, fair or not, when signs of flightiness emerge. Good luck moving forward.
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