Rob2183 Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Ok so I've been talking to this girl for a few months now and most of our talking is VIA text, call or Skype we live 40 min from each other. My concern is I might be texting her too much however, she does in fact text me a lot as well. My problem is I don't want to text her that much not because I don't like her but because the more I talk to her the more I fall for her. The other day on sat I believe I didn't text her for a few hours and she texted me asking why I didn't text her.? I'm just confused cuz when I do txt her she really doesn't seem as upbeat as before. She texts me good morning and goodnight so any advice would surely help me thank you!
Author Rob2183 Posted October 22, 2012 Author Posted October 22, 2012 Have you met her in person yet? Yes, we met
sweetkiwi Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 well some girls want to be chased and play games. This doesn't really ever end. If she's that way. So do you want to play games or be yourself? I say take her on a date. You'll find out pretty quick if she wants more from you then being a text buddy.
InJest Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Why haven't you seen her in person more? For you to be texting someone that much, you need to be ****ing them. Are you ****ing this girl?
Author Rob2183 Posted October 22, 2012 Author Posted October 22, 2012 well some girls want to be chased and play games. This doesn't really ever end. If she's that way. So do you want to play games or be yourself? I say take her on a date. You'll find out pretty quick if she wants more from you then being a text buddy. Yes we have done stuff, just last weekend she said she wants to be my "one and only" and she wants to be with me but I just don't get her and I have a hard time believing girls after past relationships
hollynoel498 Posted October 23, 2012 Posted October 23, 2012 The beginning of the relationship is supposed to be the most fun. You're supposed to be infatuated with this person. If you're having doubts this early on, I would say that's something to look at. Even if those doubts are your own from previous relationships and have nothing to do with her, they are worth exploring. If you're bringing in baggage from a previous relationship, that doesn't bode well for your current romantic endeavor. My advice is stop worrying so much about her messages and what she's saying as much as looking at yourself and your reactions to her communication. After all, your actions are the only thing you can control in this situation.
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