InAQuandary Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Hi all, Not really experienced at contributing to forums like this but I don't know where else to seek advise! I'm 23 and have landed myself in a bit of a quandary... A couple of years ago I started getting close to a girl (let's call her 'A') and we went out a few times, nothing happened further than a kiss. We realised it wouldn't work between us but I was convinced that I was in love with her. My feelings have since died down and we're still friends although the friendship is a bit on/off due to the awkwardness! Recently, due to our families being quite close (I work for her father), I've been seeing a lot of her sister ('K') and we've really hit it off. 'K' knows what myself and 'A' went through but I think she may be interested in me. We do get along really well and are both comfortable in each other's company... it somehow feels natural. I think if I asked her out we could make a real go of it together but I'm so worried that she'll think I'm settling for second best, which isn't the case at all - I just never really got to know her before! Under normal circumstances I would also be worried about their father not being too impressed with the situation!! But he's told me several times that he thinks of me as a son and that 'K' is much more suited to me than 'A'. Any advise would be much appreciated, thanks
Author InAQuandary Posted October 22, 2012 Author Posted October 22, 2012 He prefers A. I admit it's true that I'm more sexually attracted to A, not that K isn't good looking! I think maybe the 'love' I felt was more infatuation?
xdahliax Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I think it's kind of risky. If you think A is more attractive and you might have been in love with her, it's probably not the best idea to date her sister. You could really end up hurting K.
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