Xion1 Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I used to have feelings for a close friend of mine but told her friends was fine as I knew her family wouldn't like me. She's terrified of her parents so I knew she would be fine however things escalated with her to the point where I felt I had to have at arms length now to stop her falling under. she hated it but well I thought it was only way I could help her. she started dating another guy and well I guess he was maybe jealous of me but we just didn't talk for months. I was over her clearly and happy for her. suddenly I start getting calls and texts from her late at night asking how I was and then she drops that she's single again. I just said I'm sorry friend but you will be fine etc. I was a little baffled as to why she involved me as she has plenty of people to help her. Still she came to me when she was upset knowing that id make her feel better and she would tell me so as well. At one point she said I must be physic as I know when and what to say to her. She was clearly depressed and told me she was missing something in her life. I gave her an example of how I felt when years ago I was in her place. I told her I was waiting on a girl and I said she would find me eventually. she went on to say I would but needed to make more of an effort to find her if I really wanted her. after a few days she starts thanking me for everything and that because of me she now knows what she needs to do with her life and that she's gonna take active steps to get what she wants. she said she won't tell me yet what it is but when it happens she will tell me and I will be happy for her. next day she texts me asking where I lived and when she said she was in my hometown I told her I was at work all day so I couldn't see her. I didn't really ask for her to wait around for me or invite her over just said sorry I'm working. But ever since then I get the feeling she's ignoring me now and if I call her or text shes busy. what do you guys think is going on here sorry for long post!
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Why would her parents have a problem with you?
Author Xion1 Posted October 22, 2012 Author Posted October 22, 2012 when we did discuss it at the time when I told her I had feelings we both knew her parents wouldn't agree due to race and religion issues. At the time she was very scared and worried about it all to the point where her fear turned into anger towards me. She shouted saying how messed up the situation was and she was happier thinking she never stood a chance with me as she thought she wasn't my type. Now its changed after her break up she kinda realised what I been saying is that she might have everything she needs to be happy in front of her all along but its up to her to do something when it is there so it doesn't go away. usually when I ask her about something and she doesn't wanna tell me after a while she will get annoyed however now I can tell she's enjoying it. all she says to me is its about a person and whether or not to let something happen. But says its not a new guy or one of her ex's.
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