whatever136 Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I was dumped two weeks ago. Had my heart broken and it sucks. With that being said, I know I need to give myself time before I allow someone else into my life for another relationship. Thing is, I absolutely hate being single. I like having a companion around and having a girl by my side to just hang out and do whatever with. But I insist I will not let myself rush/force my self into anything. But...I'm young (21) and I also want to have fun, if you know what I mean...but I don't like/agree with hooking up/sleeping with random people. I've done it twice and hated it each time. So, I'm not sure what to do. Going months (because I'm sure it will take at least months to get over her) without action seems pretty rough...some have told me to just find a friend with benefits, but I don't think that kind of thing works. Plus, for me, with no emotions involved...it just isn't the same. Insight/advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks, y'all.
ABF Posted November 7, 2012 Posted November 7, 2012 Been there my friend . i realise i depended on relationships for my happiness and lived in fear of them ending whilst i was in them , took me a breakup 5 weeks ago to see this . Its tough being single and great having someone but that someone may lead to another heart break too soon .... stay single for a while , become your self , live a little , don't go looking , let it come to you . Its dam tough during the early days , i know . Dont let yourself become relationship dependant . Use this time now to heal . This my first experience of being single for quite a while , i feel like i have lost half of me , i do know that i am out of an unhealthy relationship though . Give yourself some time , the action will be there when your ready .
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