Necromancer Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Out of 10 girls you ask out, how many usually flake on you?. This will be interesting.
xdahliax Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I'd like to see the answers to this, but could you clarify your question. By flake, do you mean girls that accepted a date and cancelled or girls that rejected you or both? Because rejection is not flakiness.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I'd like to see the answers to this, but could you clarify your question. By flake, do you mean girls that accepted a date and cancelled or girls that rejected you or both? Because rejection is not flakiness. A rejection at the last second I would count as flakiness like in the other thread.
somedude81 Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I haven't been flaked on all that much actually. Granted that's probably because I haven't made plans with that many girls. Though the ones I've got that far with, hardly ever canceled. I'd like to see the answers to this, but could you clarify your question. By flake, do you mean girls that accepted a date and cancelled or girls that rejected you or both? Because rejection is not flakiness. Why even ask? Isn't it obvious?
xdahliax Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 I haven't been flaked on all that much actually. Granted that's probably because I haven't made plans with that many girls. Though the ones I've got that far with, hardly ever canceled. Why even ask? Isn't it obvious? Given the poster's weird interpretation of events in the past, it's not obvious at all.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Given the poster's weird interpretation of events in the past, it's not obvious at all. Considering you are another woman on here who hates everybody I am not surprised you would try to purposefully misinterpret things.
xdahliax Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Considering you are another woman on here who hates everybody I am not surprised you would try to purposefully misinterpret things. Whatever. It's a boa constrictor digesting an elephant, not a hat.
El Brujo Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 About 2 out of 10. OTOH the other 8 were either so goofy or so evil they made me wish I flaked on THEM. 1
Sith Apprentice Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 (edited) Out of 10 girls you ask out, how many usually flake on you?. This will be interesting. 9 out of 10 are rejections/flakes. Edited October 22, 2012 by Sith Apprentice
carhill Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Historically, I got a lot of rejections but very few flakes. Most who 'changed their mind' notified me substantially before the date. I think I can count being 'stood up' on one hand. It was very rare. This bridges 'traditional' dating through friends, to phone/ad dating to online dating, mostly from the 70's through the 90's. More recently, since D, the little dating I did had no such iterations of 'flaking', though the relationships didn't progress.
CptObvious Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 More than 7 on average, but I'll just say 7/10. I don't get a lot of rejections but those stupid background checks just won't give me a break.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 More than 7 on average, but I'll just say 7/10. I don't get a lot of rejections but those stupid background checks just won't give me a break. If a woman is going to run a background check on me then I should be allowed to find out how many she has slept with, who she has slept with, and get the results of a std test done on her. If I don't like any of the information I collect then that means an instant dumping without prior notification or contact. 1
phineas Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 9 out of 10 are rejections/flakes. I'd say this. However, the thing that really cranks up the WTF factor is that at least half of those women ASKED ME OUT! Why ask me out if you are going to flake? And these are chicks I see at work, my kids school, friends of friends ect.
carhill Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Didn't think to add the 'who asked who' part. No woman has ever asked me out, so my stats are relevant to my asking women out on dates.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Some of it could be generational, some of it how close you are to the person before the first date, and the locality.
grkBoy Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 If I asked 10 women out in person, then I'd get maybe 3-4 honest rejections, 5-6 evasive answers or outright lies, and 1 or 2 who will accept the date but not commit to hard plans...then flake out on me the day we're supposed to make hard plans. If I asked out 10 women online, all 10 would reject me in one way or another. Either honestly or evasively...like vanishing and never replying.
sweetkiwi Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 maybe this doesn't count because i have a vagina. But. I did a lot of the asking out when i was without a man. And i got shot down <1/10. Stood up 1/5. Usually men are intimidated by me. No i'm not a giant buff chick. I just have some factors that make men nervous. Or fall in love. No real middle ground hahah
Ross MwcFan Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 It's never got to the flaking stage as I get rejected every single time.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 It's never got to the flaking stage as I get rejected every single time. Have you considered the alternatives?
Ross MwcFan Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Have you considered the alternatives? Pros and foreign brides? Nah.
LittlePrince Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Pros and foreign brides? Nah. There are more alternatives than that.
Ross MwcFan Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 There are more alternatives than that. What like? I don't think I'd be interested in them anyway.
sweetkiwi Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 That's crazy- 1/10. You gave away your secret weapons by pluralizing them! jubbbbblies! i don't really understand but you're funny jublies are boobs to me.
Ross MwcFan Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 where do YOU think your downfall(s) is/are? I dunno, I don't think I'm ugly, in fact when I look at myself in the mirror and on webcam I think I look quite attractive, and I've been told that I'm attractive by other people. It's as though I just have something about me that stops women from finding me sexually attractive, like I have this repellant aura, maybe my pheremones are wrong. I also think that maybe I come across as too 'soft' and 'nice'.
Ross MwcFan Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 The soft and nice thing doesn't work so well in our "younger years"- Say puberty through to late 20's. lol. how old are you, by chance? Nothing physically amiss? Like short, chubby/ too skinny, balding etc..? Could be just your vibe or approach. feel for yah man, hate to see good people down. Thanks man. I'm almost 37. Even if soft and nice works in your favour at that age, I'm not sure if it'll work in my favour since I'm more like someone in their mid 20's. The only thing that could be classed as physically amiss is that I have red hair. It's not too red though, it's more of a gold colour.
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