foretale Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 I've had this problem with a couple girls ive dated in the past where Ill ask them out etc and they say they are so busy with school etc etc. Theres nothing wrong with this, however they dont reciprocate and say when would work better. What's up with this do you all do it? Are you playing hard to get? I know the ones I have dated before were interested in me for the most part but maybe not? If It were me being asked out it would come naturally for me if i was busy whenever they suggested, to make a later date... It seems rude other wise Help and advise are welcome! Cheers
xdahliax Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 If I really like a guy and I'm busy, I'll propose an exact date. I won't say, for example, "we'll reschedule for some time when I'm less busy" I'm going to make it happen. 1
KraftDinner Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 Those girls are so not interested. If a guy I liked asked me to do something but I had plans I'd either change my plans or tell him a different time I was free. If I just said I was busy, it would mean, 'I'm NOT interested."
Author foretale Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 sounds like the harsh truth I didn't want to hear but its better to learn from it thanks you guys!
Author foretale Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 also, they always say things like aww id'e really like to but... this is all through text. I have a bad case of nice guy syndrome in my head and the way I was raised I literally believe that because they say "I would really like too but..." means they actually do really want to but then again its probably total bs? I honestly have no idea!
xdahliax Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 also, they always say things like aww id'e really like to but... this is all through text. I have a bad case of nice guy syndrome in my head and the way I was raised I literally believe that because they say "I would really like too but..." means they actually do really want to but then again its probably total bs? I honestly have no idea! They're just hoping you'll get the hint or drop it. "I'd really like to but..." with no follow up is just a thing, like "take care" Means nothing. Actions speak louder than words.
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