simplybrill Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 ok, yes this may be a bit crazy...but I want my ex to miss me. I broke up with him, mostly because he never made me feel like I was special or appreciated. I felt it was all an act to him. He was doing what he thought he should be doing- like roleplay, instead of doing things because he wanted to. I tried working on things, but he always got too comfortable and slipped back into his "routine" of making time for everybody else in his life, but me. So I broke it off a second time. The wierd thing is...I want to see him, and I want to be looking fabulous that day, and I want him to be like damn,,,what did I mess up. I want him to feel bad, and realize the errors of his ways...when common sense tells me that he may well never see things from my perspective. Ive moved on, I dont have feelings for him anymore, I guess im still just severely dissapointed in him, and I just wish for one second he would be truthful, and honest, and REAL with me...but that might not even be possible. He's such a self absorbed metrosexual!!! I just wanna yell....just scream his head off...he made me feel so horrible, and it was all because HE was insecure!! Damn short guys!!!
kinipela321 Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 Trust me, you will run into him. It happened to me and my phone didnt stop ringing for 2 weeks. IT WILL HAPPEN. It will be unexpected -- and you will look great --- no matter what you are wearing. TRUST ME... Good Luck
carolina Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 My boyfriend was a complete metrosexual too! He loved looking at himself more than he did me! He could NEVER give me a simple compliment or say I looked nice or anything (even for special nights out when he knew I spent a lot of time getting ready). I wasn't expecting him to say, Wow! You look like a model--a simple 'You look nice' would have done. I ALWAYS paid him compliments--I guess b/c I loved him unconditionally--he always looked good in my eyes! I came to the same conclusion you did. He couldn't tell me anything good/positive about me b/c he felt so insecure about himself. I see friends in relationships where the guy tells his girlfriend/wife how pretty she looks, how happy she makes him... I didn't know anything else. I thought maybe I was just being 'needy ' expecting him to say something nice--which he hardly did--and then he'd wonder why I'M insecure!! Cut your losses now!! Stay away from Metrosexuals--they are too in love with themselves to love anyone else, yet insecure at the same time!!
hurtingandconfused Posted July 31, 2004 Posted July 31, 2004 he better miss me... I hope he lives his life happily and becomes successful.
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