h-e-l-p Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 (edited) Well my gf broke up with me after a weeks break about 7 days ago today and Im really struggling with this no contact I really feel the urge to text her but no I shouldnt as im the one which was dumped by her, The problem is I still feel there may be hope and she may ring me should I hold on to this or let it go? is there any one that can help me get over this at all as I really feel like S***T , but weirdly sometimes I feel happy and okayish , I really miss the company of her and we spent 5 years together and its hard just to let it go, Also is it possible for a women to fall out of love when before she was so madly obsessive with me ?? any help or steps advice to help me will be much appreciated honestly.(Is it time to let go?)?? Edited October 21, 2012 by h-e-l-p
Author h-e-l-p Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 Really stressing do you guys think she will be thinking about me the same way??
Exit Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 Yes it's possible for someone to fall out of love. This forum would be a lot emptier if stuff like that never happened. Whether or not she's thinking about you, clearly she hasn't felt any need to contact you, so just focus on that. Maybe she misses you every single day, but if she's not reaching out to you to tell you that she regrets her decision, it means she is pressing forward anyway. Sometimes women do that. They don't have to dislike you or hate you, even if they still have feelings, sometimes they know they have to move on. Holding onto hope has no bearing on whether or not she will contact you again. You are two separate people. You could keep hoping and she may never contact you, or you could give up right now and she could call tomorrow. So just free yourself. Yes, give up. There is no point sitting around pining over her. Sitting there in a state of hope does nothing to improve the situation, it just makes you miserable. Keep going with the No Contact. She dumped you. She made the decision and she is the only one who should try to reverse it. Trying to change her mind will just come across as insulting as if she can't make her own decision. She will appreciate being left alone now that she chose to end the relationship. If this all started out with "a break" and she chose to end it after that, she already had time to reconsider. You'll be okay. Give yourself more time. Nobody feels good after just 7 days. 2
BlankSpace Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 Sometimes women do that. They don't have to dislike you or hate you, even if they still have feelings, sometimes they know they have to move on. There is no point sitting around pining over her. Sitting there in a state of hope does nothing to improve the situation, it just makes you miserable. Trying to change her mind will just come across as insulting as if she can't make her own decision. You'll be okay. Give yourself more time. Nobody feels good after just 7 days. Like a slap to my face. I need to get a grip. Thanks man. For TC, hang in there. Something good will come along, sooner or later. I promise you.
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