lovebug1234 Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 i went out with this guy 3 times and there was something about him that made me think i could marry this guy BUT, he started coming on REALLY strong as in, hey babe, made some space in my apartment for you. I'm really busy at work all the time and he showed up randomly one time. This would have been super sweet 6 mos down the line but geez it's been like 2 weeks. Feeling a little smothered. I'm planning to talk to him but his desire to move fast is really turning me off and just making me want to run away. I do admit that I'm a pretty independent person, not to mention I'm still trying to figure out my feelings. Do people jump into relationships this quickly!??!?!?!?
tori0001 Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 When I married my husband. We stayed married for 27 years.
veggirl Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 lots of people jump in that quickly. Personally I think it's a terrible idea. I agree it'd be a good idea to tell him he needs to relax. What good does racing into things do? Those relationships generally fizzle the fastest, those relationships are usually the ones where people a year down the road are like "omg he yells at me, he calls me names, he never comes home, but gosh it was soooo perfect for 3 months, we even moved in together!"
xdahliax Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 It's way too quick for me but I have trust issues.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 I be more wary of nicknames like babe. My boyfriend showed alot of interest in me, but he never pursued me in such a way where he violated my space. Either this guy is a psycho or he's one of those that falls fast and then disappears fast. 1
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