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Its been 2 weeks of no contact since we broke up 2 weeks ago. She wanted to break up and she wanted to move on. Finally I recieved 3 text messages in the last couple of days and am not sure what I should do or respond to them. They were very brief messages saying "How been doing?" and "Heard you saw my dad"

 

Well, I did run into her dad and talked for a bit, but that was it. I need some advice to if I should respond to these messages or not at all? If I don't respond, what do you think she will think or do next? Do you think by not responding that she will miss me more? Help!!

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That is a tough one... If you don't write back she may think that you are done with her. But if you do write her back, it also shows that you are sort of weak, and can't resist temptation to talk to her. Its all a fing mind game. If you don't want her back then its an easy decision...ignore her. If you do want her back it is a much tougher decision. If it were me... and I was trying to get her back I would probably wait a few days and write her a fairly short message answering her, but not showing any emotion in the message at all... then the ball is in her court, if she writes back great...if she doesn't... I would try to move on... But thats just me.

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