lliw719 Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 Me and my ex are both 22 and we dated for 20 months. We have been in long distance for more than 2 months as I graduated earlier than her. We broke up 19 days ago when it all started in whatapps argument that I'm not happy about she went out with friends so late at night without telling me. I was angry and said some nasty things which I deeply regret. She refused to pick up my call even I forced her then I said fine let's break up. I felt extremely regret for my actions cause I loved her so much and I took things for granted. So I called her back after a day but she refused to pick up again saying she wanted to get over me and wish me to get over her as well. She then went on and said we need the break up as she was tired of the relationship. She also mentioned that she has been struggling for the past 2 weeks and not sure if she loved me anymore. I started begging and stuffs (all in whatapps) but she insisted the break up and said "at least this is not the right timing", "just give ourselves sometimes" etc. So I went no contact from there for 15 days then I casually whatapps her and asked how are you recently. She replied casually but our conversation last for a few lines as she said she needa sleep. I then whatapps her again after 3 more days and the same thing happened. I got friends which are close friends with her and they are sure that there is no another guy involved. She plays with her girlfriends and goes to casino every other night and quite often having insomnia. A friend asked her "Do you miss him?" She replied "not really, not much feeling at the moment" She also told my friend after the break up that she feels relief as i gave her a lot of pressure during the relationship. I really want that second chance cause I can't bear losing her I love her so much I would change and I know I could. Please tell me what to do...should I keep no contact and text her once in awhile to let her miss me? We may meet in about 2 months as she will be on holiday but I am not sure how should I approach to her. Please help!
River Rain Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 Objectively from reading what you wrote...she seems to have moved on. It's nice to think we might get a second chance, but your nasty words and arguments seems to have been her limit and she doesn't want to deal with that anymore. When a person has no feeling left, she said "not really, not much feeling at the moment", it's a sign that it's really over. Sorry to say that, but I think you should keep nc and move on yourself.
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