Crusoe Posted October 22, 2012 Posted October 22, 2012 OK so I'm going to make an extremely long story short. -Dated my ex almost three years. -He confessed he cheated on our 2yr anni. I decided to stay. Stupid. -The next 8 months he spent becoming increasingly emotionally abusive. -Didn't do a thing to get my trust back, took advantage, criticized, etc.etc. -He dumped me. -I went NC for 5 weeks. I decided to reach out. He called me back. We spoke. He sounded happy to hear from me. He told his friends the split was "temporary." -Another 2 weeks NC. -Morning of 2 week NC I get a text msg. from him telling me to sell all the jewelry he bought me. There was no us. He didn't want to give me the wrong impression. -Find out that night that he was dating a chick from his new job. This is the job he got to move closer to me. I waited 1 1/2 years in LD relationship for him to come back to me. When he did, he met her and dumped me. YOU BET YOUR A.SS I reamed him out and tore him a new one. I told him that he was a piece of s.hit and would always be one. That he was a liar, and pathetic and that I was glad I could go to bed at night guilt free. He proceeded to tell me to "lose his number" and "have a nice life" and that "this will be the last text I ever send you." The e-mail I sent him following those messages were BEYOND horrendous. I still have it saved, and it's the harshest, meanest, coldest e-mail of life. To sum up that e-mail... it ends with: "You are nothing to me but a bad memory, and I regret ever meeting you." I have no regrets, and no remorse from sending him any of that. Almost 3 years I held my tongue with him. Respected him. When he did none of that for me. F.UCK him. My ex was a compulsive liar and serial cheat. When I found out and she left, she then made a lot of false allegations in order to turn everyone against me and hide the truth. By the time she was finished I was tens of thousands in debt, had lost 90% of the people I knew and was left with little more than a kinfe, fork and a plate. It all happened so quickly that I really didn't figure out what was going on at the time. Last time I ever spoke to her was to try and get her to return some photo's. She had taken everything... first house I bought, her family, my family, friends, pets, even my life before we met... I had not a single photo of any of it. Anyway, she refused to return a thing and that's when I fully realised just how much a a sick b*tch she really was. I gave her everything, couldn't hold it back, must have been 5 minutes of verbal abuse, all of which was true and you could see that for the first time in her life she began to realise just how twisted she actually was. Took no pleasure from it but hell, sometimes things just need saying.
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