Mrlonelyone Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 That's what I'm thinking. I don't judge people by their words, I judge them by their actions. Also when dealing with matters of the heart--feelings change. Still though, some women I know in real life told me to chill and give her room, and if she comes, she comes. I agree with them. Just one thing, don't back off so far that it looks like you had no interest in her as a person. Just be as friendly as you were before, no more and no less.
dispatch3d Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 I'll preface this by saying I'm not great at gaming. In your situation I would probably move on. I'd likely just roll my eyes at the comment she gave me then stop trying to hit on her because she may not legitimately be interested. The whole sell to people that are actually buying thing. I don't know if this is the best approach. I would still drink with her but she would no longer be the focus of my night, and the whole back-and-forth banter would be over. An example from a girls point of view: She started seeing this guy. Everything was good, but she didn't believe he actually liked her. So she stopped having sex with him and thought "we'll see how long he lasts now". The guy ends up dating this really hot girl that's relatively nice for about a year, and she feels bad about it because she could have been dating him if she didn't mess it up. I just lol'd at the story. Anyhow, maybe in her mind you are part of that story. I just personally wouldn't be that into someone that took those actions for those reasons.
Author MrCastle Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 I'll preface this by saying I'm not great at gaming. In your situation I would probably move on. I'd likely just roll my eyes at the comment she gave me then stop trying to hit on her because she may not legitimately be interested. The whole sell to people that are actually buying thing. I don't know if this is the best approach. I would still drink with her but she would no longer be the focus of my night, and the whole back-and-forth banter would be over. An example from a girls point of view: She started seeing this guy. Everything was good, but she didn't believe he actually liked her. So she stopped having sex with him and thought "we'll see how long he lasts now". The guy ends up dating this really hot girl that's relatively nice for about a year, and she feels bad about it because she could have been dating him if she didn't mess it up. I just lol'd at the story. Anyhow, maybe in her mind you are part of that story. I just personally wouldn't be that into someone that took those actions for those reasons. Yeah. I just don't want to miss out on any opportunities. Nothing worse than finding out months or years later you had a chance with someone if you just did something differently.
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