NYC-BigKat Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 So so sorry but I need to vent ok. I went to my uncle's underground thingy last night & there was lots of hot latinas there. Some was really young like 16 & 17 but they was all having a good time & my uncle was with some lady in her 20s or something drinking & watching like usual. So these girls started dancing close to really really close to me so I thought they was interested in me so I try to talk to them but they run away or make excuses . I soon to leave & tell my uncle no let me go so he says lets talk tomorrow but he says nothing so whats to talk about?! Anyway I stay home all day bored & I set up a online profile on okcupid & hotornot 'cause its free. I get no replies at all on cupid after sending out like 50-60 msgs but I get 4 replies on hotornot so I feel so happy & ask for numbers so we can talk/text. 3 girls dont reply to me & 1 gives me her number but when I text she acts like she dont know who I am? I'm so annoyed with this . Then I try textmates & get lots of numbers but when I ask to see a pic the girls stop replying. All of them just stop!! My friends keeps telling me to just become like my uncle & who cares if the family hates me but at least I can be free from this aggravation but its gonna be a long road for me 'cause he so different from me . Should I give this a shot but take it really really slow so I dont mess up??
SmileFace Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 I don't really follow your threads but how old are you?
Author NYC-BigKat Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 I don't really follow your threads but how old are you? Gonna be 24 next month & why hasn't other people replied yet to me? Are they that busy or 'cause its saturday night so they pretend to be?
Shaun-Dro Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 So so sorry but I need to vent ok. I went to my uncle's underground thingy last night & there was lots of hot latinas there. Some was really young like 16 & 17 but they was all having a good time & my uncle was with some lady in her 20s or something drinking & watching like usual. So these girls started dancing close to really really close to me so I thought they was interested in me so I try to talk to them but they run away or make excuses . I soon to leave & tell my uncle no let me go so he says lets talk tomorrow but he says nothing so whats to talk about?! Anyway I stay home all day bored & I set up a online profile on okcupid & hotornot 'cause its free. I get no replies at all on cupid after sending out like 50-60 msgs but I get 4 replies on hotornot so I feel so happy & ask for numbers so we can talk/text. 3 girls dont reply to me & 1 gives me her number but when I text she acts like she dont know who I am? I'm so annoyed with this . Then I try textmates & get lots of numbers but when I ask to see a pic the girls stop replying. All of them just stop!! My friends keeps telling me to just become like my uncle & who cares if the family hates me but at least I can be free from this aggravation but its gonna be a long road for me 'cause he so different from me . Should I give this a shot but take it really really slow so I dont mess up?? Your uncle probably does what I sometimes do which is to sit back relaxed and take in the action. That's one thing you should learn and stop being so uptight about meeting silly dames. You already know the rest, Bigkat.
yongyong Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 You have a shop and you are selling a chicken aka 'cock' Some girls will walk into your shop (girls who talk to you first), check out the product and leave without buying anything. Some girls will come to your shop because you advertised (contacting them first) they didn't end up buying anything. This is inevitable. Should you tell them as a business owner 'f-ck you, you are wasting my time'? you can close the business and stop selling your chicken (aka: cock) OR keep going till you find a buyer. You also need to work on your product, your communication skills and other things that represent your product. Sorry I like to explain things this way.....
Sanman Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 You're going after girls that are not interested and then complaining that they wasted your time. Slow down, look around, and be more selective. You are taking numbers, conversations, and proximity way too seriously. They are strangers and owe you nothing. Remember that. A good salesman learns to let go of those not interested and move on quickly. You will only get sales from those who have interest. Trying to convince a girl who is not interested otherwise really is not worth your time.
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