bluegreen Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 Should woman really have to keep teaching man how to romance us? Do those little special things from time to time and be romantics in relationship or man are really clueless and not actually lazy about this ? PS: Am talking about once things feel flat life problems drown us and revoking passion and emotions in relationship its needed ASP why do man don't know how to "fix" their part by themselves but need instructions and tips on it?
meeji Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 There are 4 kinds of men. 1. The kind that really is clueless and doesn't know what to do. It is innocent and unintentional. 2. The kind that will go out of his way, IF he is really into the woman but if he isn't he is lazy. 3. The kind that tries really hard and just does everything wrong, no matter how hard he tries. He cares and he wants to do the work, he doesn't know to make it a success. 4. The kind that has mastered the art. Figure out what kind of man you have. If he is number 2, he's probably just doesn't have very pationate feelings about you, which causes him to act like he isn't interested. 1 and 3 aren't bad guys, they just need help knowing what you want and honestly, I think most men would rather a woman tell him what she wants than making him guess. They often guess wrong. This is pretty normal, I think. You have to give him credit for the things he does do for you, rather than focusing on what he's not, especially if he is trying. And obviously if he was 4 you wouldn't have posted. Good luck. 2
Author bluegreen Posted October 21, 2012 Author Posted October 21, 2012 I would say its number one along with some laziness inexperience and bit taking for granted : 1. The kind that really is clueless and doesn't know what to do. It is innocent and unintentional.
blugirl Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 ^ I'm in the same situation... >.> Well, let's just say you'll need a LOT of patience.... and mind you, I'm a very impatient person
Author bluegreen Posted October 22, 2012 Author Posted October 22, 2012 I kind of have spent my patience and it never helps that I was born impatient person either : ))) am passionate impulsive bubbling volcano he is chill as you please don't worry be happy type AGRRR ....
justwhoiam Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 There are 4 kinds of men. 1. The kind that really is clueless and doesn't know what to do. It is innocent and unintentional. 2. The kind that will go out of his way, IF he is really into the woman but if he isn't he is lazy. 3. The kind that tries really hard and just does everything wrong, no matter how hard he tries. He cares and he wants to do the work, he doesn't know to make it a success. 4. The kind that has mastered the art. I've never met #4, or probably he happens to be the flirty kind, so no good for me. I only want #2. I'm sick & tired of 1 & 3. I guess I'll enter a convent one of these days...
Author bluegreen Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 Yap I agree with you girl or becoming lesbian might not even be such a bad thing after all. Man suck
justwhoiam Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Yap I agree with you girl or becoming lesbian might not even be such a bad thing after all. Man suck We're on the same wavelength once again... but the nunnery really seems a better option to me. I'll never be a lesbian. Over and out!
amaysngrace Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 I don't wanna be your fall-back crutch anymore.
justwhoiam Posted November 4, 2012 Posted November 4, 2012 Who goes out of their way for something they're not interested in?! What are you implying here? Are you questioning his level of interest in me? That'd be a waste of energy. It's just a different way of thinking... what would be great to me is probably superfluous to him. That's how I explain it.
Author bluegreen Posted November 4, 2012 Author Posted November 4, 2012 I don't wanna be your fall-back crutch anymore. Exactly call it as it is ...
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