Hallo Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 (edited) I'm new to dating. Yesterday was the second time in my life I found a person interresting enough to ask her out on a date. She said yes Anyway, it hit my mind... What does it tell you, when someone says yes to a date? Does it mean they like you back / are interrested in you, or could it be like just giving it a chance? (I'm not talking about online-dating) I guess it depends on the circumstances a bit, of course. My background is that I met her on a few parties and just talked. I got her number and texted her, asking if she wanted to meet some day and we have now decided a place and time. Question for the ladies... What are the "requirements" for you to accept a date? Also open for advice.. If there's anything certain I should think about etc since I'm really new to this, haha Edited October 20, 2012 by Hallo
CaptJay Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 the "YES" in this instance just means she's willing to sacrifice a few moments of her time to get to know you better. Know, that by moment #2, she'll already how far she'll go with you. Sad but true, say the studies.
HeldbyGravity Posted October 21, 2012 Posted October 21, 2012 I'm new to dating. Yesterday was the second time in my life I found a person interresting enough to ask her out on a date. She said yes Anyway, it hit my mind... What does it tell you, when someone says yes to a date? Does it mean they like you back / are interrested in you, or could it be like just giving it a chance? (I'm not talking about online-dating) I guess it depends on the circumstances a bit, of course. My background is that I met her on a few parties and just talked. I got her number and texted her, asking if she wanted to meet some day and we have now decided a place and time. Question for the ladies... What are the "requirements" for you to accept a date? Also open for advice.. If there's anything certain I should think about etc since I'm really new to this, haha Welcome to the ever-so-confusing world of dating! Come on in, we have tea and cookies on Wednesdays... A yes to a date, in the LEAST, means that she is interested in you and may think that it could go somewhere. It depends on what kind of person she is- some people date more to just have fun, others date to find meaningful relationships. For me personally to accept a date, I have to know them a bit (to judge if we'd be compatible), I have to like being around them (which you can judge by hanging out or seeing each other at other events). I have to be able to see myself in a relationship with him, or at least going in that direction. FIRST DATE ADVICE! On your first "meeting" with anyone, on an official date, make sure you have showered. With soap. If you want, wear a hint of cologne, nothing too strong. Bring mints or gum, or pocket-packs of Listerine so that you can keep fresh breath. Nothing worse than bad breath on a date! Be on time. Dress appropriately for where ever you're going- not a full suit, but not something with holes and stains on it. Be a gentleman, and try flirting with her a bit once you think she's comfortable with it. A hug or kiss at the end of the date (or both!) will just be apparent to you depending on what you feel like- some people prefer one or the other, or feel like the timing isn't right for the kiss yet. If you had a good time on the date, make sure to tell her so. Follow up in a day or two and be friendly, and then see if the timing is right for a second date, if she was into you. And lastly... relax and have fun .
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