BBB08 Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 Ok here's the story. We didnt technically break up. We went on the "break" and agreed to get back together. I thought of it cuz school was driving her crazy and she was driving me crazy. After school finished, we talked and i tried to set up you know to start going out slowly again, and she'd decline, act like she doesnt care and that she's busy. One time i talked to her on computer, i tried phoning her and she just gave me this attitude. The fina straw. I said to myself screw it im not gonna ask her anymore or talk to her. We didnt talk for 3 weeks and she contacted me a couple of days ago asking if there's something new with me. Of course i played it cool and didnt tell her nothing. Is she mad cuz i initiated the brake and now she wants me to work to get her, i did work. But i also have pride. And now that she's figuring out that im done chassing she's trying to start talking to me. Any suggestions. I also think her friends have a big part in keeping us apart. Our relationship was the type that all her friends would tell her, wow how do you guys have so much fun together. And now messed up as it is, they dont want their friend to be happy. Me and her met up one night and I was going out on a limb. I said i needed an ending not only for me but for both of us. That its not fair. I was expecting for her to say the bull****line..... I need space, i dont know what i want, but she says let's take it a day at a time. And when we did go on the break she got mad at me cuz "i had a bad attitude" because i was so OK with the break. What does she want me to cry.... YEAH RIGHT
tizmos Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 You guys have to talk to see why she agreed to just a break and now seems disinterested in getting back together. Like most girls, she's probably confused about something and the only thing you can do is to tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way, screw it. At least you went all in. Rejection lasts for a couple of seconds. Regret lasts for an eternity. If she really cares about you, she'll come around. You've done everything you can. If you do anything more, it will just throw her away. Be strong dude.
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