Useless Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 I've been seeing this girl for 3 months and see recently dumped me. She says she's confused about whether or not she wants to be in a relationship right now, but see claims and she still likes me and still wants to hang out. Just to let you know that i have treated this girl like a goddess. I always pay for all of her stuff, not just when we go out, but whenever she wants something. I've already taken her to 2 concerts this summer, Kings dominion, and we've gone out on the boat a lot. Well the whole getting dumped thing has made my life, and others around me, miserable for the whole past week. Reason is that i really, really like her. I'm four years older than her, 17 & 21, and i've never felt this strongly about any girl i've been with. I've been acting cool this past week when i talk to her on the phone and all, act like nothings bothering me. Well, we're going out tonight and i plan on talking to her about her feelings towards me and whether or not she wants a relationship with me. I got this gut feeling that she's just saying that when she really means that she don't like me and don't want to date me anymore. Anyone offer any advice on this?? Should i just ignore her to tease her, you know make her wonder what i'm doing and make her think that i could care less that we broke up?? I think i've just been giving her too much attention. I don't know what to do or what to think. Thats what you guys are here for.
unsafe Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 you are way to into this girl of 3 months. I think if she was ready to call things off this early then you probably should go look else where. Go out with her tonight but be just friends. Dont hold hands. no kissing no sex. Just friends see how she likes that. She may want to just keep you around for when she is bored or has nothing else to do. If you don't give her what she wants she may realize what she had and decide if she wants that or not. Don't let her have it her way always... Maybe you came on to strong.. Buying her things all the time..that is so sweet but the girl will love it but she wont love you for it. just be cool and don't let her walk all over you. Be strong..plus you are young still so much time to have fun... and find a good girl that will love you and appricate all you do for them.
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