yongyong Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 How do you respond to 'how are you' when you are not in good mood?? say, I am not doing well??? I would've totally said 'it's good ' since she is a stranger and offered me something. Maybe I would be more honest if it was a guy friend who cooked it wrong or something.
xdahliax Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 This actually happened to me once, except he was more blunt. Obviously it had nothing to do with a muffin, but I was really embarrassed and hurt (I knew him better than this girl knows you). He tried to make it up to me but I definitely kept my distance for a certain period of time. Women don't normally want to go further with someone that makes them feel dumb or judged, so it's up to you to change how she sees you. It's fixable.
utterer of lies Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 I guess that's what PUAs call a neg (since you are so obsessed with PUA ). Negs will only make any half-way normal woman lose interest. So they work on you?
sweetkiwi Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 go and talk to her. You won't be able to understand the situation till you interact with her again. Don't talk about the muffin unless she does. And if she does just do your thing and be blunt, tell her you have a little problem with- well- being too blunt. If you want to have dinner with her say so. Any woman you date will have to accept this personality trait. Which i personally don't consider a fault unless your view of actuality is perversely skewed.
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