syw0806 Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 it's been fourth date.. I've known him only for a month. when we are together, he asks about myself..he takes me to nice restaurants, he likes to cuddle with me.. etcetc when I ask him when can we meet up again, he's always positive about it with smiley face, never cancel date.. but it just he never ask me first..lol He's extremely busy, recently hes been working 7days. 9am to 1-2 am.. His work is really tricky like it can be just popping up out of nowhere, so he always have to confirm date like a day before.. few days ago, he texted me how my week going and telling me his work seems getting slower..but didn't ask me out..lol so days later, when I asked him if hes available next week, he said 'yes. maybe i can see you this weekend.' but again, he wasnt sure ...lol he told me hes sorry about his crazy schedule.. and he asked me if I want to go see Taken2(the movie), then he's like 'I want to ask you to go watch with me, but you know my schedule....' ugh lol im thinking is he not sure about his schedule, that's why he never initiates? We don't even live close, he lives in the city i live in jersey.. only takes 1 hr but it's kinda tough.. should I talk to him about it? or just let it be..? I don't really have problem asking him first.. maybe I already get used to it lol but ya know as a woman I want to be asked out sometimes lol
Ami1uwant Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 If he doesn't know with his schedule he doesn't want to commit for a date..... But his work schedule could be a ruse because he's seeing other women so you are 3 or 4 in the pecking order.
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