busybumblebee22 Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 I moved to a new area, met a guy through other friends who was always trying to help me out, get me involved etc. We started hanging out a lot. His best mates picked up on us spending time together and getting on well. Finally we kissed. We kept it quiet for a week until it was obvious to everyone, no surprise. His best mate said they all knew he really liked me but it was a case of waiting to see whether I felt same back. He was not the type of guy I normally went for but just fell in love with him as a person and now I do fancy him. Everything is going well. Then, I was with him, he kept getting texts off a girl who had just moved away as I had moved into the area. I knew they had both pulled whilst at a party when I had just moved here. She was asking about me and him. This girl moved away to be with her boyfriend for a few months. Same girl then visit’s a month later. She goes to visit him at his place for a catch up (his best mate told him to stay away from her). His mates say I’m being good about her, they wouldn’t be. She has been with 3 other guys (his mates). Even caused one of them to split up with his gf, as the gf didn’t like/trust her. His friend told me to give him a chance as he is a good guy and that none of them like this other girl and the way she is treating him. I speak with him the next day, saying it’s best we end it. He told me the day before she moved away she told him she loves him AND her bf. He said he really liked me and persuaded me to keep going with him. She leaves, everything is great again. He goes on holiday, comes back, even better than ever, holding hands, hugged me in front of his friends at airport, left me to look after his flat and always complimenting me. …A week later, she visits again. I don’t hear from him for a week. We meet and he ends it, but wants to stay good friends, he really likes me and fancies me I asked him out straight if he loved her, he said yes, thinks he has a chance with her (she told everyone she is moving back in a few months, for a couple of months) to make her leave her bf to be with him. Also, he just broke up with his ex of 7 years before he met her, which I knew he was still finding hard. She has also said to me only she doesn't particualry fancy him but loves him in a platonic way. I think we do have something and wish this other girl would just leave him alone for him to move on. I want him to be happy and I think she is being very cruel. Even her friends keep telling her to stop contacting him, it’s not fair. She can’t seem to let us be happy, tells all us girls she loves her bf and is looking at buying a house with him. Obviously not telling him that! I think things would be different if she just left him alone. People have actually fallen out with her because this has been going on way longer than before I even knew him. I also think he is finding it hard getting over his ex of 5 years who has moved is now in anew relationship. He is worth a fight, I just don’t know how to handle it??? I don’t know what to do, I really love this guy
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