RomanceLow Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 Backstory: My ex is super sweet and really cute. All i remember was him complementing me and attending to me. He always kept me laughing and i liked him a lot. He liked me too as he would always call me when he was leaving and always wanted me around. We had problems we broke up a couple of time cause i was unsure of our relationship and i was leaving to college. You could say our relationship had an expiration. A month before i left i caught him cheating trying to hook up with random people. so i broke up with him. He apologized and his eyes were sincere. I forgave him and i stopped talking to him=( yesterday he text me how school was going... i told him great...he then said not to be a stranger...What does he want from me?
Calico Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 He may not currently have a bed warmer and suddenly remembered that you exist. When he cheated on you, his eyes weren't the problem; his inability to keep his dick in his pants and to communicate were. For males it's also a little hard on the pride when their previous women stop talking to them. That's the negative possibility. A brighter option is that he would just like to be friends with you and/or cares about how you're doing. When you have been with someone for a while, you don't just stop caring about them even if you are no longer in love with them. 1
JustALittleBit Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 He may not currently have a bed warmer and suddenly remembered that you exist. When he cheated on you, his eyes weren't the problem; his inability to keep his dick in his pants and to communicate were. For males it's also a little hard on the pride when their previous women stop talking to them. That's the negative possibility. A brighter option is that he would just like to be friends with you and/or cares about how you're doing. When you have been with someone for a while, you don't just stop caring about them even if you are no longer in love with them. Is that true Calico about the hard on the pride thing? Why would a guy care if you stop contacting...? For me as a lady it might just hurt to think I meant nothing but I wouldn't trace it back to ego or anything
Liz2012 Posted October 20, 2012 Posted October 20, 2012 It sounds like he's interested in you still. You will have this cheating issue to get past but I have the feeling that if you dig into that there's probably a correlation between that and the downward spiral you mention of the relationship. Might have been his poor way of ending it first knowing how you felt about going away. You'll have to fix that and the fact your not around, or let him go...
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