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Having never had a gf, just so curious as to hat it's actually like


dmmm

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How man other guys on here who suffer from "incel" (seems to be the en vogue term around here atm even though I don't particularly like the term) feel the same as this.

 

For me, the idea of having someone in this world that actually wants to be with you, that when having a bad day would light up seeing your name appear on their phone, that would want to be with nobody else but you is just mind blowing.

 

To be able to come home after your day and just be with that somebody and literally be at peace with the world.

 

In my late 30's I Have never had anything near that. I'm at the beginning of a very long road to the point in my life where such a relationship could realistically exist, even though it from here it seems so far far away .

 

I've just been reading messages on LDR part of board from girls and guys and it filled me with such happiness reading about how much these people want to be with each other, how much they feel for each other. Also, literally made me say out loud "What I wouldn't give to have that".

 

Like I said, having somebody feeling that for you, being able to make somebody's day just by turning up, or calling them, blows my mind.

 

I hope one day to get that, just once, even if it's just a glimpse.

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