poorlildevil2 Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 Has any1 loved some1 but the timin is all WRONG. me i love some yes i said it love even though i said b4 that i can't b in a relationship. i love this guy and he loves me back but he has a girl. me if he was to leave her i wouldn't want to b wit him cuz he was cheatin on her wit me wat makes me think he wont do it to me. but i love him. i wanna know if any1 went threw this and how they got over it. did they ever get wit the person? r u still in love but the timin is still off? or did u stop talkin all 2gether? please help again.
uriel Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 You need to stay away from this guy while he's attached to someone else. You're right: this is bad timing. Unless he wants to leave her -- make a clean break -- before starting a relationship with you, there's no going forward. If he's willing to have an affair / cheat, he's not the kind of man you can trust both because he's willing to deceive a woman who trusts him (and you don't want to be that woman someday) and because he's not into you enough to make YOU his companion (you're taking second chair to someone else). I know this is hard advice to take. I was in a similar situation -- except I was the one who was attached. In the end, I stayed attached and let the man I'd fallen in love with go. Hurt terribly, but that was the right thing to do. Yes, I still love him -- but so what? The only way I could manage it was no contact -- none. That's what you'll have to do too. Tell him if he's ever free to look you up and see if you are too. Until then, you've got to move on. -- uriel
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