robaday Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 This cant be normal. Its been a month and a half since we broke up, and while I havent contacted her once since she told me not to, I still really want to. Strange in the past after breakups, I could let go, I guess knowing theyd get back in touch. But this time, I dont think Ill ever hear from her again, and I think its that thats hurting me nothing else. If anything its my ego thats damaged. I feel really humiliated, by her slamming the door in my face when I wanted to talk one last time. She had spent two weeks begging me to work it out with her - I had given her space because she said she was having doubts, and I was wary of seeing her because I was trying to protect myself.
Tally123 Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 It's actually totally normal!!! 1.5 months isnt actually a long time, so dont beat yourself up over the fact that you still want to contact her. My NC period has been nearly three months. There are times where I couldnt bare speaking to him again, and others when I really want to....this will probably happen to you. But you will get there. I cannot remember your story and what happend and whether you had closure etc. Usually if they broke up with you the whole NC is obvioulsy harder, but you are doing really well of one and a half months of NC. Keep it up. T
simpilot Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 I agree this is totally normal. You are still feeling the loss man! I think this is one of those situations that "time will tell." It is interesting that she begged to work it out with you, let her clear her head and see what life is like without you. People tend to start forgetting the petty things in a breakup and see you for who you really are. If she is not over you than she will contact you. If she moves on I would as well. Keep at it!
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