Any1 else had problems with digital photos/media, break up in these digital times?

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Any1 else had problems with digital photos/media, break up in these digital times?

 

Also triggers?

 

I just find it funny how in a way more challenging these times are - with facebook, and digital storage rather than just physical photos.

 

I have been broken up with my ex for a while now. I like tho think I've healed and I have moved on. However I was house sitting at my old area and that triggered me.

 

I had a bunch of our photos - me and her all on data cds and dvds.

 

I'm a musician - It was a big mistake first off to have her anywhere near related o my career. - I mixed important song files with photos of her.

 

I let it go and really didn't go back to those data dvds etc... I didn't get triggered but sometimes I did.

 

So recently I decided to copy all these dvd/cds and transfer them to hardrives...with the plan of searching for all our photos and just cutting them and putting them into separate folders.

 

That way if I need to access my old work, I don't have to come across those.

 

I decided not to totally trash them because hey, they were a part of a beautiful part of life.

 

Maybee one day I will delete them all.

 

All physical things she gave me writting etc - i threw away, cause comming across that was stupid.

 

I plan on just having everything organized and left like that.

 

This recently made me think of her, but I know I'll get through it it's not even bad. I didn't cry or anything.

 

I just want to get all this shaped up.

[lakerman34]

Any1 else had problems with digital photos/media, break up in these digital times?

 

Also triggers?

 

I just find it funny how in a way more challenging these times are - with facebook, and digital storage rather than just physical photos.

 

I have been broken up with my ex for a while now. I like tho think I've healed and I have moved on. However I was house sitting at my old area and that triggered me.

 

I had a bunch of our photos - me and her all on data cds and dvds.

 

I'm a musician - It was a big mistake first off to have her anywhere near related o my career. - I mixed important song files with photos of her.

 

I let it go and really didn't go back to those data dvds etc... I didn't get triggered but sometimes I did.

 

So recently I decided to copy all these dvd/cds and transfer them to hardrives...with the plan of searching for all our photos and just cutting them and putting them into separate folders.

 

That way if I need to access my old work, I don't have to come across those.

 

I decided not to totally trash them because hey, they were a part of a beautiful part of life.

 

Maybee one day I will delete them all.

 

All physical things she gave me writting etc - i threw away, cause comming across that was stupid.

 

I plan on just having everything organized and left like that.

 

This recently made me think of her, but I know I'll get through it it's not even bad. I didn't cry or anything.

 

I just want to get all this shaped up.

 

Man, it's hard, but what I did was shoot the ***** and deleted EVERYTHING. I had this voicemail from her that said "I miss you, I wanna see your face soon babe, I love you more than you could know nighty night sweetie." It was the hardest thing for me to let go. Her voice, her cuteness, her being genuine with me, it was great.

 

I deleted it, and I tell myself "I'm deleting years of happiness," but the only void in your head and heart a is woman void. Delete everything, go out, talk to woman, and one day, it could be tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, or in 5 years, you'll find that woman that fills that void, and she'll fill it even more than your ex.

 

That's what I keep telling myself. I deleted her from Facebook and deleted my Twitter, all pictures are gone, EVERYTHING is gone. I recommend it. It's hard after, say, 3 days, but it's for the best.