badplace Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 me and my ex split up about 4 months ago, we have an 11 month old baby together... litrally as soon as we broke up she got with one of her good friends and is still with him and it seems to be quite serious already.. i wont deny i was neglectful when we split but i was nothing like the man i am now.. loosing my family was the wake up call i needed. i honestly want to marry this woman and have more children. the break up was bad and i went crazy when i found out she was with this guy as she has done this to me before... HOW DO I GET HER BACK, LOOSING HER IS NOT AN OPTION i know deep down she still loves me
Million.to.1 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Be as good a father as you can to your child. Get on with your life. If she does really love you as you say, then she will be back. You have a child together so you are connected in that way and will be in some contact for many years to come. It may take a long while... you are just going to have to wait. The relationship she is in has to break down on it's own. You cannot do anything to get her back. She has to want that too.
KatZee Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 No. It won't. If she doesn't want to be with you, going NC or LC or being her best friend won't convince her to be with you. She just doesn't care. And if she "loved you deep down" she would be with this other guy and serious about him. AGAIN. You have a child. Be parents. But I don't think this is the relationship for you.
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