lovehurts5 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Ex of 4 years broke up with me almost 6 months ago. he made out with his coworker in front of me at a bar justfeont of me 3 weeks after BU. He contacted me 3 times other then that we were NC. We had sex a week ago and I just saw on fb today that same girl went to DC with him just 2 weeks ago.... I'm upset he contacted me and we hooked up. If hee's still talking to that girl why me?
sendme Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Because he could... because it was easy... because for him it's only physical... I know girl... I've been there... I stayed with a man while he cheated on me and cheated on me.... he even took another girl home to be with him and his family while his grandmother was dying.... they do it because they can... I know it hurts to hear, but that's why... because they can.... do yourself a favor and remember that you are worth so much more than that... you deserve to be with someone who WANTS to be with you... not someone who is with you because he can be....
Calico Posted October 19, 2012 Posted October 19, 2012 I'm upset he contacted me and we hooked up. If hee's still talking to that girl why me? You know the answer: Because you were easily available for sex and comfort, and you reassured him that he can have that at any time he wants without any sacrifices. Why would he not talk to the girl and also get sex from you if he can have both? People take what they are offered. You're familiar and safe, she's new and exciting. As you said, "we hooked up". "We" includes you. You consented. I understand why you did this, but the thing is, sex doesn't fix broken relationships. They remain broken, and your heart breaks a little more. 1
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