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Seriously, calling all females out there! I'm struggling to know what women want?

James_2012

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I have been single for a while and I'm out of the loop when it comes to dating. I am trying to meet a nice girl, but I never have any luck. I am working in a call centre at the moment, but I mentioned it to this girl and she didn't seem as interested after that. It got me thinking, do all girls want a guy who is in a great job? because if so, I'm going to be single for a while. This is the only job I have at the moment and it was hard enough finding that. I agree it's not ideal, but until I know for sure what I want to do as a career, it'll have to be my job.

How do I make female friends without them thinking I'm a weirdo? I would like to have a group of female friends or even a couple who I can hang out with and get to know better. This is hard because girls seem really cautious around guys. How do get to know a (female) stranger on a friend level?

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talk to them at smoking break?

I know this guy who worked at call center because there are a lot of chicks.

he worked there for a month, found a GF and quit. :)

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I go gym on my lunch break. plus, most of the girls there are not my type.

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so no one else gonna add anything?

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well it's obvious. most of them are fat, ugly girls with a good voice.

 

Approach them and ask about topics females would like.

 

You can get some ideas here. Ask them like it's your friend's situation ('hey his GF kissed some girl at a party, is it cheating?')

 

If you ask that at a bar, it can be awkward question. I bet they would love to give their opinions at a work place.

 

I go gym on my lunch break. plus, most of the girls there are not my type.
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the opposite of what they say they want. it's pretty simple.

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If your job isn't the best thing you have going, then focus on the other aspects of your life. Hit the gym, read a book or two, stay up to date on current events, or relevant things people in your age category are interested in.

 

Women do want a man who has some sort of career aspirations, but that said, it's certainly not the be all end all.

 

Work on yourself and try and be as rounded as possible.

 

As for meeting women on a friendship level, the same old applies. Try signing up for some intramural or rec sports in your city, sign for up for a cooking or dance class. Create an online dating profile, like POF, even though that site is terrible, but message girls under the pretense of friendship if that's what you're really looking for. Also, stop giving a ****. You don't need a women in your life to be happy, once you realize that, they seem to come in droves. Be happy being you and the best you that you can be and the rest will fall into place.

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I believe most women are attracted a person with a good level of confidence in themselves.

 

It would seem that if you think that women will believe that you are a weirdo for wanting to be friends with them that you need to work on your confidence.

 

Once you gain that you will have plenty of women who will have interest in you. Confidence doesn't mean being cocky though- it means loving yourself enough to believe in yourself and go after what you want without always questioning yourself.

 

Most guys I know that complain about women not wanting them just need to have more confidence.

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