DANdelion5 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 He said he was to busy to be in a relationship because were in third year and have tons of work to do. At first I just thought he was being polite and flat out rejecting me which I excepted but now he finds ways to be near me. The other day I tried to avoid eye contact and he still followed me and when I sat down, he went and got a chair and put it next to me even though there was another space on the table. Then he kept taking my phone and looking at if for ages. I thought he wanted to play games on it so I unlocked it for him. It was only when I got home that I realised he had been staring at my lock screen which has a photo of me on it. I just want to be over him really - its so frustrating to think about the what ifs and I can't tell him to stay away from me because thats just beyond mean and I don't want to hurt him but I need to find a way to just get over him because its been going on for months and I just want to stop feeling. How do I get over him.
todreaminblue Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 He said he was to busy to be in a relationship because were in third year and have tons of work to do. At first I just thought he was being polite and flat out rejecting me which I excepted but now he finds ways to be near me. The other day I tried to avoid eye contact and he still followed me and when I sat down, he went and got a chair and put it next to me even though there was another space on the table. Then he kept taking my phone and looking at if for ages. I thought he wanted to play games on it so I unlocked it for him. It was only when I got home that I realised he had been staring at my lock screen which has a photo of me on it. I just want to be over him really - its so frustrating to think about the what ifs and I can't tell him to stay away from me because thats just beyond mean and I don't want to hurt him but I need to find a way to just get over him because its been going on for months and I just want to stop feeling. How do I get over him. sounds like he has had a change of heart if you want to get over him its avoid all situations where you might have to sit next to him sit with a crowd of people.......i would consider though, it seems like he might be interested in you.....i would consider the what ifs...and try talking to him get him to open up .....and then if he doesnt open up consider no contact for a while till you deal with your feelings for him....i would seriously consider the what ifs..you may not get rejected a second time..dont be totally forward just conversational and light if he wants to date you then it should be him to front up and you can make it easy by starting conversations..best of luck to ya..........deb
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