rainberry22 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 (edited) my ex and i have been broken up since march of this year, we hadn't talked for 2 months and he contacted me and i agreed to be friends through the summer which i regret to this day:rolleyes:. after a while i got tired of being lead on and i felt like he was talking advantage of me being nice. finally i told him to leave me alone and let me move on with my life. it was an ongoing battle with him because i do still have strong feelings for him but i don't want him anymore and i just wanted to be left alone because of everything he put me through. he's been dating sine we've been broken up. now he is dating another girl and he would contact me telling me he loves me and wishes the best for me and if i need him he's here for me. It would kill me so much because i felt confused on how he would tell me how he felt but was with another person. one time He showed up to my house drunk, i was upset! I told him you need to leave me alone your with someone else. He says maybe i'm not over you. nd its nothing emotional with her. the next day he tells me he is sorry and i never replied. A week later i see him and his gf at a club and i mined my own business having fun dancing with the girls. Before we left he was standing by the stares and was watching me while i was dancing with another guy yet again he was drunk. For everything he tells me his excuse is that he was drunk and I told him to leave me alone and there is no reason for you to have my number. HE kept saying that he wished he never meet me and wish i wasnt his first and being rude but i didn't cry as much as it hurt. I made sure he was sober to hear me out. I had also told him I am happier without you and I don't need your help. I feel like i should be over him by now and have a bf at times, but i don't wan't to rush into anything. This was my first serious relationship, I'm just asking for some advice on how to get rid of what i feel and to stop thinking about him please! Edited October 18, 2012 by rainberry22 edit story
tespa13 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Sounds like you are doing your best to put him behind you, it is him that keeps coming back to you. If you really do what to be done with him I would suggest changing your phone number so he can no longer contact you. If you have mutual friends which can often make things very difficult, try spending time with different people so that you are not constantly reminded of what used to be.
Author rainberry22 Posted October 19, 2012 Author Posted October 19, 2012 I am, however now I feel like I'm on sqaure one and question if he still has feelings for me, but I know I shouldn't be thinking like that. I see him kind of like he needs to have someone to feel whole be UAE he dis tell me he missed the feeling of being in love. Sometimes I know my own fault is that i think too much about him and need to focus on myself again like before.
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