has my ex moved on already?

[Twixis]

So i was with my girlfriend on and off for 2 years. On and off because we would fight break up for about a month then get back together, its happened 3 times. So we broke up around 5 days ago and i think she is already seeing someone else? We havent spoken in 4 days but because she goes to the same college as me i see her often.

 

She had this friend that she would talk to when we argued and he would help her out but i think they have begun seeing each other. She has done this once in the past where she dated a guy for 2 weeks as a rebound. Ive asked her when we were together whether she would ever date this friend of hers and she said no; she told me she thinks he is rather ugly and said to him if you ever hit on me im never speaking to you again, we broke up for about a week not long ago but still talked everyday and she told me that one day he started texting too much and she had to tell him to stop. Today i saw her in our school canteen and she didnt look happy, he was with her and she looked quite close, he was helping her on her phone but they didnt talk much. They were in a group of friends and when they walked together and didnt really apeak. A day before we split up she said she would consider dating him in the future maybe and that she likes him a little bit but not enough to say she fancies him. So what does everyone think? Sorry for wall of txt

[KatZee]

Why would you want to be with someone who dumps you for a month on end multiple times? Clearly there is something missing in the relationship for her to keep leaving like this. She's not entirely happy and most likely gets back out of comfort or because she can't find better in the month she's done.

[Chi townD]

Yeah, she was pulling the wool over your eye's. But, you should feel sorry for the dumbass, because your Ex is going to use him as an emotional tampon. She may date him, but she'll be on the lookout for someone she feels is a better suit for her, then she's gonna kick is ass to the curb.

 

Dude, you can do a hell of a lot better. Just the fact that she lets other guys get that close to her should speak volumes on how she actually viewed your relationship.

[flitzanu]

heheh i've learned from experience...when a girl is saying "oh no i wouldn't date him" it is often a lie.

 

i wouldn't sweat the guy in this situation though, you should sweat the girl. it's her choice in leaving you, nothing to do with this "friend" of hers.

[geegirl]

Ive asked her when we were together whether she would ever date this friend of hers and she said no;

 

C'mon now. Did you think she was going to say, "Yes honey, I think I would date him...) Of course she's going to say no, even if she was secretly thinking about it.