whydamnitwhy Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 ok, first of all, this looks pretty sad because I'm a shy woman. I've never been on a real date and my only bf was off the net (LOL). I have this huge crush on a guy tho and I have never in my life wanted someone so much. I've never spoken to him but we've exchanged glances, smiles and he's winked at me, has shown interest in me. He works somewhere in a busy atmosphere. So the next time he is not with a client, I will approach him. He works beside two other employees and idk if approaching this way will get him in trouble but i want him and so i just gotta go ahead and nip this in the bud. How does this sound? "Excuse me." He looks up. "Hi, my name is ***, may i ask you your name?" (while smiling). He tells me his name (Tom). "Tom, okay well...I've seen you around and I'm interested in getting to know you. Would you like to take my number and maybe we can get a cup of coffee sometime?" UGH idk! Please give me suggestions on what to say so that i can write it down and rehearse LOL. Yes sad i know, but please, help me...I really need it. 1
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 ok, first of all, this looks pretty sad because I'm a shy woman. I've never been on a real date and my only bf was off the net (LOL). I have this huge crush on a guy tho and I have never in my life wanted someone so much. I've never spoken to him but we've exchanged glances, smiles and he's winked at me, has shown interest in me. He works somewhere in a busy atmosphere. So the next time he is not with a client, I will approach him. He works beside two other employees and idk if approaching this way will get him in trouble but i want him and so i just gotta go ahead and nip this in the bud. How does this sound? "Excuse me." He looks up. "Hi, my name is ***, may i ask you your name?" (while smiling). He tells me his name (Tom). "Tom, okay well...I've seen you around and I'm interested in getting to know you. Would you like to take my number and maybe we can get a cup of coffee sometime?" UGH idk! Please give me suggestions on what to say so that i can write it down and rehearse LOL. Yes sad i know, but please, help me...I really need it. Aww you're precious!! You should tell him that you don't know many people in (where ever you live) and ask if he ever wants to get together for coffee sometime then give him your number and tell him to call. I think it's so good that you're ballsy enough to do this because I'm certainly not lol good luck
xdahliax Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 That's so cute. Just do it, don't rehearse. You only live once 1
Emissary Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 (edited) Men love it when women initiate anything. We're all sick and tired of having to do all the work in breaking ground with relationships, it's a huge turn-on when a woman does anything like that. So pretty much just give him your number, if he doesn't have a girlfriend and is at least neutral to the idea of you to begin with, he will probably take you up on it. Unless he's some dickhead player or something of course. EDIT: Also don't worry, you won't get him in trouble. It's not like he's asking his clients for their numbers, he's not making anybody uncomfortable. He will probably just get some grins and nods of approval because he affirmed his manhood in front of everybody. Also in certain circumstances, it's even ok to ask clients/customers for dates or numbers. At my job I'm rarely pure business on my end and make a point to socialize with regular customers as I fill out their orders. I've gotten some numbers by doing this and I wasn't unprofessional at all, so I didn't get in trouble. Edited October 18, 2012 by Emissary
nyyankeegal33 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 yeah just go for it that way. Good luck with it!
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