almost 6yrs and im still here

[UglyGirl]

Dear my fellow Loveshackers!

 

Well I am a very nice and kind individual as my friends described as always!

Everything was always right for me even if Im doing something very inappropriate..Anyways, I met this boy 5 years ago and he seemed very nice and funny. That is why i fell in love with him at the first place! So life goes on, we moved into an apartment till now we're still staying at the same place.

So as we've been observing each other and trying out other sort of activities that could bring us together as a couple but most of the time we always end up fighting.He seemed to be very controlling over what i do..He basically just took controll of everything. and if i dont do whatever he likes, he gets mad.

Honestly he is a good person, he loves and cares for others. and he also love kids! he has 4 kids of his own on different girls. and he told me that he doesnt want to bear a baby at the moment cus he doesnt want any distractions since its very hard to raise kids nowadays till we have the financial support and house and etc.

Then he expects me to help him through his child supports debts and help his family through some financial needs. I would say im more as a secretrary than a girlfriend now..before it was better because it was only things that we do as a couple but now his family is involved.

the bad thing is he doesnt care much of my family. He thinks because i have a bad experience with my family then he could just turn his back on them but i can not do that! he expects me to do the same! somehow i always find a way to act behind his back.

So I am basically writing this down because i need your opinion!

please help!

[Lisa_Lisa]

Asking you to help pay HIS child support? You need to get out of this relationship. He is manipulating you and trying to bleed you dry. He doesn't care about you. He just wants you to be there for him, his family, and financially at that. Try and detach yourself from him.