steelpantherrocks Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 if you were in a relationship with someone who was very irational and very jelous about you having friends that were the opposite sex, would you try and avoid the potential fight and interogation by perhaps not being as honest as you should have. i got caught with this prob half a dozen times over the 4 years. i dealt with her on many occasions prior to our breakup when it came to other women. i am a socail guy have alot of friends, she didnt and was a very insecure and jelous person. not trying to rationalize it some say a lie is a lie, but some say including my therapist that i was programmed at an early point in the realtionship to avoid this sort of conflict as i knew what the result would be. i cant shut off all contact with others its rediculous. alot came from befriending people on fb and petty stuff like that.. deleting messages although harmless became a huge issue as i was hiding things according to her. she always found them though, god she was good..
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