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Second chance after being too needy?


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I realized I was needy via text ONLY. I would send her stupid texts when I got off of work, saying things like '"when do i get to see you....need you here......miss you.....when do i get to see you..."

 

I honestly am not a needy person, I am independent, have my own group of friends, and function by myself. For some reason I dont know I would send her these stupid text messages, even if I didnt even care if I saw her that night.

 

We dated 4.5 years and the bad messages were honestly only happening during the last part of the relationship, before being dumped. Its been 1 month of NC, and I think theres a shot we can work it out after having some time alone and me working on myself.

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I don't think you seemed needy for the most part... maybe the 'I need you here' but you were in a relationship. You shouldn't have to feel bad about sending 'I miss you' texts :/

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