What do you say to a heavy set business partner

[natwilliams]

I have a business partner I look up to greatly. I am a very fit skinny guy. He's older and quite a bit overweight. He's a lovely guy though.

A couple times he's seen me on the bike and said jovially "well ha, that's why you're in shape and I'm not!" very jovially.

The first time I kinda laughed and said, "hey you're welcome to join me for a ride anytime"

The next I just wasnt sure, I couldn't run the same line.

 

Should I have said something like "Oh Bob you're not out of shape" or "you're looking good yourself!"

[Balzac]

He's not going to respect you if you lie. Best suggestion is to encourage him to let you know if he wants to get started. It's never too late.

[Abystarswoman]

Next time, instead of obliquely hinting that he should join you, ask him outright. "Hey, Business Partner, would you like to hit the gym one night and then maybe dinner afterwards? We can talk shop."

 

I bet he'd maybe go for that. It would encourage a closer working relationship, as well.

 

Why is his weight an issue? Is he at risk for serious problems?

[RiverRunning]

When I first saw this thread title, I rolled my eyes and figured it was the usual crap: some idiot thinking it's their God-given right to scream, "Drop the candy!" to every single fat co-worker. You surprised me, OP.

 

I'd say keep up with your usual lines or just laugh it off. Really, what else can you do beyond that? Maybe toss in a, "It was tough when I first started," or "Kill two bird with one stone: transportation and exercise."