wayne40 Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 (edited) hi every one my names wayne i need some advise really . me and my ex girlfriend had a break up about 6 mouths ago i joined a dating site to see if i could find my sole mate . not knowing that my ex girlfriend also joined the same dating site. we had no contact for 6 months she got in contact throw the same dating site we started talking to see where it went wrong in the relationship we started to work things out she said that she still loves me and she cant stop thinking about me and i did say the same . thing everything was really going great for a good few weeks we have made arrangements to go on a date very soon we both said that we would take each other of the dating sites i went ahead and done mine then found out that she has not done hers . so i did ask why she has not taken hers of i asked her dont you think it could give out the wrong signals not just to me but to the other people on the dating site. also she is talking to other men on there she is on there every day as she did say that she was i did say to her its us she needs to concentrate on and not a dating site all i got of her at the moment is we need to concentrate on other things first i did ask what that means but never go a answer back . i thing that the is playing some kind of mind game as well as trying to make me jealous and i am maning up to it she is doing a very good job i have sent her a text just to say its me or the dating site she keeps on texting to say that she loves me and wants to be with me but she will not come of the dating site as she is enoying the flirting with the men on there i just really need some advise really on what to do thanks wayne Edited October 17, 2012 by wayne40
superconfusedman Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 Did she say the words "Im not leaving the dating site because I enjoy flirting with other men"? Or is that just how you are reading into it. If she did say that I think its time to move on. If not what did she say exactly?
NavyAirTraffic Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 It means she loves you until she finds something "better" on the dating site or wants to keep her options open just in case. If you love someone you don't actively look for something else, or enjoy flirting with other people!!
TheFemaleVoice Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 :)Honestly Wayne the best thing to do in this situation is to trust her judgement, trust is the best base of every relationship, and yes she may love you but shes also got her guard up right now, so take it slow and give her time to really get comfortable with you again and im sure that things will get better and she will eventually take down that posting, and as for the flirting, all women love to be told that they are beautiful, but im sure if she is as crazy about you as you are saying then im sure she wont do anything silly. Best of luck
Author wayne40 Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 Did she say the words "Im not leaving the dating site because I enjoy flirting with other men"? Or is that just how you are reading into it. If she did say that I think its time to move on. If not what did she say exactly? she said that that she would leave the dating site and yes she said that she likes to flirt on there to
Author wayne40 Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 :)Honestly Wayne the best thing to do in this situation is to trust her judgement, trust is the best base of every relationship, and yes she may love you but shes also got her guard up right now, so take it slow and give her time to really get comfortable with you again and im sure that things will get better and she will eventually take down that posting, and as for the flirting, all women love to be told that they are beautiful, but im sure if she is as crazy about you as you are saying then im sure she wont do anything silly. Best of luck thank you for your advise 1
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