syw0806 Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 this guy and i went on the fourth date last week. I was the one who called first after dates, but this time, because i wanted to know if he really is interested..lol I didn't call him for two days.. then since he didn't call either.. I called him. he didn't answer, not even called back. I figured we're done.. was going to move on, but then two days later, he texted how's my week going. I thought maybe he wasn't sure im interested..or busy or whatever, but still was interested in me.. I called him next day, he didn't answer the phone (he barely could answer mine due to his work, but used to always call back within few hours tho..) Next day, I texted him whats up he replied like +10 hr later saying sorry he had really busy day.... I mean.. am i option 2 now? He works like 60-80 hr week really busy guy but he used to always call me back .. never took +10 hr to reply my text... he told me on the last date, that it's the season he gets really busy that he is very sorry for being too busy having not enough time to date.. I understand that, I am pretty much busy myself too, but I dont know..lol We barely texted or called eachother before, so not texting much is not a big deal.. but him taking so long time to get back to me just bothers me.. should I move on? why would he send me text if hes not interested..?
Mrlonelyone Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I think you are too quick to conclude he is not interested. Someone who works 80 hours a week barely has time to eat and sleep. How about you ask him out for date five, or set aside Friday or Saturday night for a standing date. (That is what many couples do). Then he can work his 60 or 80 hour weeks but still give you plenty of time.
Ami1uwant Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 I agree with what the others have said...it's too early to cut from this. He even told you it's his busy time of year which means long hours and little time to date. Another thing...if he is past that nervous stage in dating and feels this is something he will tone down his texting/calling. Many women think that is lack of interest when it is not. 1
Author syw0806 Posted October 18, 2012 Author Posted October 18, 2012 I guess you guys are right haha I texted him today asking when can i see him, if he'll still be busy next week. He replied "Next week Maybe this weekend but not sure yet" He always confirms date like a day before since his work pops up out of nowhere..lol still don't get it why he never initiates planning dates..ugh I thought I showed him enough I like him, but maybe I didn't... just hoping theres no other woman..lol at least hes willing to see me again so hopefully goes well Thanks!
2sunny Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 I know extremely busy and powerful men - and they call everyday. They also initiate plans with me and never let anything get in the way of getting together. 1
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