koruk Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 There's a girl in my english class, a week ago I decided to meet her and now I've been talking with her like a week at the end of the classes. But the problem is I can't be sure about what is she thinking. Is she interested in me, or she's just being polite? And how can I make her like me more? ((I'm not very good at this dating issues or either the unspoken language of flirting. I only had a girlfriend in high school and she came to me by herself so I'm kind of amateur in this things.))
Reegs Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Don't be nervous....be confident... You have gotten the hardest part out of the way...the initial introduction. Now that you have developed a rapport with her.... Find out through more conversation what she likes to do for fun. Does she like to go to concerts? Does she like the movies? Does she like to go out and party? Find out what she likes, do some research of something going on in your area similar to that, and ask her to accompany you. Women like when you pay attention to what they say... Good luck!
Author koruk Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 Don't be nervous....be confident... You have gotten the hardest part out of the way...the initial introduction. Now that you have developed a rapport with her.... Find out through more conversation what she likes to do for fun. Does she like to go to concerts? Does she like the movies? Does she like to go out and party? Find out what she likes, do some research of something going on in your area similar to that, and ask her to accompany you. Women like when you pay attention to what they say... Good luck! And if I get rejected, what should I do?
Reegs Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Part of life is rejection my friend. If she rejects you....learn from the rejection and move forward. No need to make it awkward, or get mad. If this girl doesn't like what your selling, I will GUARANTEE there is a girl out there that will. Have fun with it.....and be confident!
Shaun-Dro Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 There's a girl in my english class, a week ago I decided to meet her and now I've been talking with her like a week at the end of the classes. But the problem is I can't be sure about what is she thinking. Is she interested in me, or she's just being polite? And how can I make her like me more? ((I'm not very good at this dating issues or either the unspoken language of flirting. I only had a girlfriend in high school and she came to me by herself so I'm kind of amateur in this things.)) Judging from that photo, I almost took you for a veteran of sorts when it came to picking up dames. Guess I was wrong for once in my life.
Author koruk Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 Judging from that photo, I almost took you for a veteran of sorts when it came to picking up dames. Guess I was wrong for once in my life. Nah, he's just an internet meme it's not mine
pteromom Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I think reegs got it right. Talk to her. Learn about who she is and what she likes. Then ask her out. Best thing that could happen: She says YES, you go out and have a wonderful time, and a great relationship (or night of passion, depending on what you are looking for) commences. Worst thing that could happen: She says NO, you no longer have to torture yourself wondering if she is interested or not, and you'll be free to move on to someone else. So it is a win-win either way.
Author koruk Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 I talked with her again today, when we're talking I said, would you want to go to that cafe and drink some coffee. Then she said she got work to do. Was that a rejection?
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