antelope82 Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 you should read my post, because i recently updated it with my rollercoaster ride. I was not engaged YET but we had talked about it for 6 months and spent 2+ months picking out our engagement ring and wedding bands and finally did buy them only to have her break up with me 3 days later. it sucked. no contact is the best thing to do because you'll just be hurt, and ANGRY and really disgusted at what she does in the end. Gibson was right, and he warned me in my thread and everything he wrote became reality.
Simon Phoenix Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Made the call....she answered the phone and it was just a quick one minute conversation. No painful feelings came from it. Just a nice friendly chat, her asking how ive been, me hoping she's doing well, and that was the end of it. To be honest it felt like a lot of weight was lifted off my shoulders. I'm sure i would have regretted it if i didn't do it. I appreciate everyones advice on here i really do. We have all been in this position either right now or in the past. I know exactly how your feeling and it hurts like hell. But there is no reason to give out low blows and chippy remarks because thats how your own story ended. Have some respect. We'll see how you feel about that conversation in a week or two, but I'm glad that it was ok right now. Just don't let it plant a seed in your head. 2
Tree_Salmon Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Made the call....she answered the phone and it was just a quick one minute conversation. No painful feelings came from it. Just a nice friendly chat, her asking how ive been, me hoping she's doing well, and that was the end of it. To be honest it felt like a lot of weight was lifted off my shoulders. I'm sure i would have regretted it if i didn't do it. I appreciate everyones advice on here i really do. We have all been in this position either right now or in the past. I know exactly how your feeling and it hurts like hell. But there is no reason to give out low blows and chippy remarks because thats how your own story ended. Have some respect. After you continue to waste your time with this person and finally get tired of the back and forth we will see you hand the same advice to some new vagina stunned guy who wont listen to you because he will think his love is so different from everyone else. Then you'll see where these "remarks" come from. But if this truly "helped" you somehow. Then i'm glad. But i think the "weight" you feel lifted is the relief you feel from the breadcrumbs she handed you. How nice of her to answer your call and speak with you. lift that weight from you. Shes such a great person. 2
flitzanu Posted October 18, 2012 Posted October 18, 2012 Made the call....she answered the phone and it was just a quick one minute conversation. No painful feelings came from it. Just a nice friendly chat, her asking how ive been, me hoping she's doing well, and that was the end of it. To be honest it felt like a lot of weight was lifted off my shoulders. I'm sure i would have regretted it if i didn't do it. I appreciate everyones advice on here i really do. We have all been in this position either right now or in the past. I know exactly how your feeling and it hurts like hell. But there is no reason to give out low blows and chippy remarks because thats how your own story ended. Have some respect. feeling like calling again now? feeling like there's something you just forgot to say, and that it's going to be easier now, knowing that she was receptive to the phone call? yeah, that's the downfall. 1
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