Lost23 Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 My Fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years now. It was her Birthday this past week and we drove to Orlando, Fl. She wanted to spend some time with her bestfriend. We had an agreement which is called the Hall Pass which means that only one night we can mess around. Rules were you can't talk about what happened, you can't have sex and it can't be with someone you know. The plans for the weekend in Orlando were Friday night my Fiancee and her bestfriend were suppose to go out and have drinks and then we were all gonna hang out and smoke. Saturday in the day she was gonna hangout with her bestfriend and I was gonna stay in the hotel playing video games and at night we were gonna go to diffent clubs and use our Hall Pass and Sunday my fiancee her bestfriend and I were where gonna hangout during the day and at night we were gonna go to the club. I thought it was gonna be fun, nice weekend what can go wrong? Everything... Friday, she went out to have drinks at a restaurant where her "friend" works at. This "friend" when my fiancee and I first met he liked her but he was in a relationship already and the girl he was with had a baby. He got upset because she started liking me and ended up being my girlfriend. So my fiancee cut him off completely and didn't talk to him till recently he reach out to her saying that he was sorry for the way he acted and he just wants to be friends. My fiancee asked if it was ok to talk to him I didn't see a big deal about I trust her so I said yes. He's her best guy frind now. So Friday they go have drinks were he works not the plan. They hangout at his place after, smoke and then come for me and we hang out for a little. Saturday I didn't end up going to the club because her bestfriend has a baby and her boyfriend the guy I was suppose to go out with had to stay home with his baby. So that whole Saturday I stayed in the hotel. I waited up for her. Her best friend texed me saying that my fiancee was sleeping over because she to tipsy. It was 4am club closed at 2am. Sunday she came back to the hotel at 1pm and went to do some errands for her bestfriend. Her bestfriend, the "friend", two of the "friend's" friend and my fiancee and me went to play pool at night. We were suppose to go the club after. We ended up smoking at the "friend's" place and hanging out there... the whole time i felt my fiancee distant and there was so much secrecy going on with everybody. My fianceetexing the "friend" while were sitting at the table, my fiancee and her bestfriend getting up to go talk. So when we were headed to the hotel her bestfriend asked me if my fiancee could sleep over I said No. I wanted this one night with her because we are currently living and my fiancee's older sister's house and we sleep in the livingroom with no privacy. So I wanted this night to be intimate with. My fiance knew that. Her bestfriend kept bugging me I eold her no so I ingnored her. My fiancee got mad at me and ended having an argument in front of the hotel room. I told her that i've been feeling her distant and gets annoyed with me for little things. I've been trying so hard to keep her happy. I've been in florida for 8months and haven't been able to find a job. I've been trying but she said not enough. We were both living in Houston but she wanted to move florida because we had issues at my parents house and she wanted to be with her family. So I moved with her. I asked her if she still loved me and she said yes and then I asked her if she still wanted to be with me and she wanst sure. I felt a deep whole in my chest all I can do was cry. She had sooo many messed up relationships in the past and I was the only good one. She said we'd be forever but now I don't know what to do. I'm moving back to houston to get a job and save up for the wedding but I feel like ever since she stared talking with the "friend " she's been distant. And I feel like she did something with him. Am I being paranoid??? What do I do?!!!!!!!! Some one help!!!
Author Lost23 Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 I she left me alone that night too slept at her brestfriend's house..... sigh..... worst day of my life...
Chi townD Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Of course she left you alone that night to sleep at her friends place. Isn't it convenient that she HAPPENED to have an arguement with you so she could go BACK to her friends place which is what they wanted her to do in the first place? First, the hall pass idea is probably the most STUPID idea on the planet. And by your rules, she already broke them if she made out with this guy friend that YOU KNOW!! And that was one of the rules. Dude, run.
KatZee Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 What can go wrong? Everything is right when you try to live your life like a freaking movie. Bad news was written all over this. "Teenagers. Dey think dey know everything. You give dem an inch, dey swim all over you." - Sebastian, The Little Mermaid 1
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