Nothingwithouthim Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I waited for right guy all my life .Never dated , never even touched a guy . Two months before I kissed a guy for first time , coz I loved & he wanted the kiss . ..he gave me impression that he also love me. 3 days after the kiss he took his gf for vacation .i was left lonely, devastated and miserable .
ThatJustHappened Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Moral of the story...don't kiss other women's boyfriends! 6
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 I even didn't know that she exisist at that time of kiss.
LadyGrey Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Now that you know where you stand, what are you doing to move on, get over it? 3
MissBee Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I waited for right guy all my life .Never dated , never even touched a guy . Two months before I kissed a guy for first time , coz I loved & he wanted the kiss . ..he gave me impression that he also love me. 3 days after the kiss he took his gf for vacation .i was left lonely, devastated and miserable . I'm sorry about that. He was obviously not the right guy. Be grateful you didn't do more than that. In this dating world, it can be tricky. We sometimes can't rely on impressions and assumptions, these days, you have to flat out ask about where you stand. You're learning though. Most of us get duped or make wrong assumptions or get plain lied to while waiting for the right one. All we can do is take the lessons and learn to apply them next time and hopefully avoid the same mistakes where we can. I have no idea how long you knew him or really the context of the relationship you had: were you dating? But bottomline is that he is a sleaze and hopefully you don't listen to any sad story he comes back with, if he does come back. I don't want to see you coming back and posting here about how you've forgiven him for that lie and it wasn't that bad and you love him...please don't fall into that trap. That was a HUGE lie and betrayal and was deliberate and you need to leave him out of your romantic life and move on. There will be more love, romance and kissing in your future! 1
veryhappy Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 I hope you didn't have sex with him, and you won't. When he comes back from his vacation, do not get back to him. You are not nothing without him. You are just you. 1
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 (edited) No I didn't have sex ... He tried to convince me many time .. He said ,I am stubborn . Edited October 16, 2012 by Nothingwithouthim 1
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 But now you know, so you need to end all contact with this loser because his only goal is to get in your pants. How old are you? How old is this guy? :laugh: I am 29 and he is 51
raea Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 Your last post indicated that you did know he had a girlfriend and you didn't want to be the second woman. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/348473-why-he-did I'm sorry you are hurting, but again I feel like thatjusthappened hit it right on the nose.
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 Your last post indicated that you did know he had a girlfriend and you didn't want to be the second woman. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/other-man-woman/348473-why-he-did I'm sorry you are hurting, but again I feel like thatjusthappened hit it right on the nose. ...he gave me mixed signals. First he said that she is the one who is interested. .he is not into her . . .he never mentioned her in weeks. ..she is younger than me and unfortunately morbidly obese ..i thought its pver coz he was looking for a girlfriend
Squirter69 Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 You need to buck up. This guy is obviously a loser so if you are "nothingwithouthim" you are just as big of a loser, if not a bigger loser. The sooner you realize this you'll find a winner. 1
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 18, 2012 Author Posted October 18, 2012 You need to buck up. This guy is obviously a loser so if you are "nothingwithouthim" you are just as big of a loser, if not a bigger loser. The sooner you realize this you'll find a winner. Squirte: thanks a lot for your suggestion. I highly appreciate it . You have a good heart , God bless you
Author Nothingwithouthim Posted October 19, 2012 Author Posted October 19, 2012 I am trying to forget him
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