Silverheels Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now and so far I think things are going great, with one exception...his friend "K". He has known her for a couple of years and she came to him a couple months ago with some sob story about her life. She claims her husband was abusive and she had to leave him but had no where to live. So my boyfriend took her in to his house. He was completely honest with me in every way about all of it and assured me there was nothing going on. When he left town she was supposed to stay at his place and take care of it. Well she got him evicted. She is pretty much a mess...3 kids, 21 years old, no job, smokes a lot of pot, etc. She left her kids with her husband, which I always thought was strange. She would tell us how he would beat her and things, but yet she left her children with him? I don't get it. Anyway, while he has been gone they have been staying in touch because she was helping him with some things here. Her and I talked a little when he first left, but I got a text from her telling me to no longer talk to her. I got the hint and immediately knew she had an alterior motive to wanting to be around my man. Over the last few months she has been lying to him, his friends and his family. She got a new place to live 30 miles away and was recently fired from ANOTHER job. She flat out told my man that she was jealous that he and I were together and she got a little attached to him. He told her was not interested and he wanted to be with me and that was it. I am nervous that she will try and ruin things when he gets back. He has been trying to cut her out of things completely because of the lies and her hatred towards me. He plans on telling her to back off once he gets his storage unit keys from her, which his best friend and I are trying to get right now. Since she managed to get my man evicted from his place, he will be moving in with me next month when he gets back. We see a future with each other and we are excited to get it moving, but what do we do about "K"? Any insight is appreciated...sorry it was such a long post Thanks!!
WonderKid Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 You shouldn't really care now. Don't focus on her, focus on your man. Obviously he did his job he turned her down and put her in her place. Its okay to bring up once how you feel about her, but nothing more than that. I mean c'mon she's got 3 kids! What are you worried about? Just keep doing your man right and he won't forget. If she's jealous who gives a damn. Obviously you're doing something right.
CptObvious Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Silver, watch your 6. That sack of **** is most likely going to plant evidence on you and try to make you look like a cheater. Even worse, she might send some dip**** to kill you. You're under attack now and you better take this seriously. There are no rules for scumbags.
Author Silverheels Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 You are right! It has been a really hard 4 months not being together and I guess I just don't want any more drama. She is a hot mess to say the least and incredibly immature. Besides I am 27 and he is 30...we have no desire for high school BS. Thank you for your response.
Author Silverheels Posted October 16, 2012 Author Posted October 16, 2012 It's a good thing I have some pretty good connections and firearms in my home. I am a firm believer in the "Make My Day" Law!
InJest Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Can he get the lock changed to his storage unit? Pretty sure he can. He needs to tell her to never speak to him again, and block all forms of contact. He doesn't need to do it in person either. A text message will suffice.
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