maddy56 Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 I have been married for 10 years but been with my husband for 14 years. We have two children (8 and 11) together and he has a daughter from his previous marriage. We have had a rocky relationship from the start. His mom was very religious and wanted us to get married before our first son was born but I didn't want to marry him because we were having issues. That should have been a sign to walk out of the relationship. He has had an affair, sex talk women on the net and at one point I feel in my gut that he tried to get with my sister. Emotionally and mentally I was done with this marriage. March of 2012 I met a guy who is a friend of a friend and we hit it off. We had a 6 hour conversation the first night we met and the chemistry was amazing. My husband found out 1 month later about him and I didn't deny it. We thought the best thing was for him to leave the house. I am still with the guy I met in March. My family all know him and my kids really like him. He is an incredible man but now that the divorce is going to be finalized in a couple of weeks I feel sad. I gave the relationship everything I could have. I was loyal to him till the end. We went to counseling but nothing worked. Why do I feel sad? He is a great father to our kids and has kept his end of the bargain with child support and visitation rights but he was not a great husband I should be happy I found someone who loves me and cares for me and treats me like a princess, yet, I find myself feeling sad...
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