thompson Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Girlfriend of 6 months breaks it off via text message. No explanation, nothing. Wont return phone calls. (I may have called 4 times in 2 weeks) not being obsessive. I thought it best to at least try, but give space since these abrupt endings have happened with her before. So after 2 weeks I resorted to calling a girlfriend of hers to get the scoop. I was admittedly at my wits end and just wanted answers. Her gf told me that she was just done....hmmm okay....why? She related an incident where she lost her wallet and thought it was in her car and since I had her car she asked me to find it. Looked everywhere and couldnt find it. She then had to cancel all her bank cards as a result. After the cards were cancelled she asked if I had checked this compartment under the radio and I said I had not, and she blew her top. Checked it herself and she found it. She blamed me for that!!! Then another incident when I had spilled wine on the carpet (it wasnt much, a few drops) that I immediately cleaned up. I have not begged or pleaded that she call me, but apologetic for what happened. She has maintained a friendship with me on face book and surprisingly has commented on on a few posts Ive made or liked a funny picture I posted. This behavior is just so odd to me. This is a Woman in her late 30's and Im in my early 40's. I guess I just expected much more from her than this.
Lisa_Lisa Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Until you mentioned your ages, I thought you guys were in your early 20's. Age really is nothing but a number. Sorry you're going through this. You just can't into people's heads to know what they're thinking. If she's done this to you before, is doing it now, odds are she'll do it again and again. If she hasn't called you back, let it be. She'll come around sooner or later. And I hope by that time you'll be over her immature ways.
KathyM Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 She's decided she's done with the relationship. I know it's kind of annoying that she keeps on with these teaser contacts, like posting on your fb page, but I would suggest you defriend her. You don't need this flakey crap in your life. She sounds unstable and way too difficult to live with if you are getting all this flack after doing nothing wrong. Just let her go, and defriend her on fb. 1
whatheheckhappened Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 yep..thats a tough one. also, very immature after 6 months to do by text and for someone in their late 30's. She has lost interest. Her interest level in you is down...however, with the facebook postings i wouldnt be surprised if she contacts you if you stay away. also, i sympathize with you on contacting her friend for answers. not knowing is worse than knowing. however, sometimes things aren't fair and there are no answers. best of luck
Simon Phoenix Posted October 16, 2012 Posted October 16, 2012 Her reaction sounds similar to the reaction of my ex after we had our break. I knew the reason she broke with me so my situation differed with it, but the end result is the same -- her attraction switch went from on to off. That's a sh--ty situation, because it seems like once women turn that switch, it takes a miracle for them to turn it back.
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