budd98 Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 My g/f and I broke up after 3 years of dating 2 weeks ago. We had broken up for 2 months before and it ended the same way as it did this time too. She said that she loved me, but wasn't IN love with me. So when we broke up, I decided to not make any communications with her and try to move on for good. I really do love this girl, but she has hurt me so many times before. Since we broke up we have not contacted eachother until yesterday. She text me and said "She was at home for funeral, my friends dad died." So now I sit and wonder if I should reply to her or if she was just trying to get me to respond with something. I knew her friend too and I heard about the death so I text the friend before my ex even told me about it just to send my regards. So my question is if anyone thinks it is wise for me to respond to my ex's text message, or if I should just let it sit for awhile longer. I do still love this girl, but she needs to grow up. I just want some kind of reason why she would send a message like that. Oh, and the death was not spontaneous, it was known that it was coming. Any advice would help me out. Thanks.
wildturkey Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 Call her and take care of the sympathy part of it. That is the type of attention she needs. Or I have an idea. Send her flowers of sympathy which at the same time will include the friend you have in common. Not a good time to touch the heart directly. Be sincere and mean it. Otherwise you will get caught and will be bad bad bad. See what reaction you get. Flowers are for sheering people up and get positive results. How many of these will she get? I am confident in saying that if she has a man in her life he is not going to send flowers to her because he is there unless he has my same idea which is possible. I hope you get a positive reaction.
Author budd98 Posted July 29, 2004 Author Posted July 29, 2004 24 hours after she text me, I text her back that I hope it went well and everything was ok. She responded a minute later with "thanx!" I didn't text back after that. Since she text me back so fast, does that mean that she misses me and was glad to see a response?? Or just a response??
midnitebuterfly Posted July 29, 2004 Posted July 29, 2004 Originally posted by budd98 24 hours after she text me, I text her back that I hope it went well and everything was ok. She responded a minute later with "thanx!" I didn't text back after that. Since she text me back so fast, does that mean that she misses me and was glad to see a response?? Or just a response?? If that wa sme I would have been waiting for your respones.. I think she was waiting b/c she misses u.. But, don't give in. She will hurt you again hon.. Just try to move on and if it is ment to be it will work itself out..
Author budd98 Posted July 30, 2004 Author Posted July 30, 2004 Thanks for the response. She did text me again today saying "How have been?" I don't know if I should respond to this text or not, but I think I probably should'nt. Gosh this sucks. Why does she text me know after 2 weeks of nothing??
wildturkey Posted July 30, 2004 Posted July 30, 2004 re-establish communication. send text back and see how that goes. Ask to hear her voice. Start talking. Do not wait.
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