headsashed Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Its been a little while since i started a thread on here so i decided to post for those whom followed my journey. I can safely say that things are really on the up for me,feelings for my ex have faded so so much these past few months,i rarely think about her and when i do they are just passing thoughts that i can easily push away. Today i even went for a day away where me and my ex always went on holiday,i honestly thought it would hit me but you know what,i felt nothing at all,even all the places we visited i saw today and i felt perfectly fine. Last night i met a new girl,we have been talking for a little while and decided to meet yesterday,things couldnt have gone any better tbh,and she asked for a 2nd date ,ofcourse i said yes,were going to the cinema tomorrow to watch taken 2,and then going for a few drinks after. We seem to have a lot in common so fingers crossed. Ive been totally open to her about things and taking things slow is the best option,she was fine with everything. This is the 2nd woman ive met since i split with my ex almost 6 months ago,sadly the 1st date didnt really work out. Alot of people doubted me on here and that was understandable because of the actions i took. Im living proof that things do get better and i honestly never thought i would get through this. Ive alot of people to thank on here for helping me through this horrible journey,so thanks,you know who you are. Im not 100% healed but im ready to face the world alone now,date again,think you get the gist lol.
geegirl Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Good for you, H! Keep on going. You are testament that baby steps will get you somewhere! Have fun on your date tomorrow!
Author headsashed Posted October 15, 2012 Author Posted October 15, 2012 Good for you, H! Keep on going. You are testament that baby steps will get you somewhere! Have fun on your date tomorrow! Thankyou geegirl,it took some doing but i got there in the end,ill have fun tomorrow dont u worry and now im going for a few pints with my friend,im gonna get drunk tonight
KatZee Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 Yayyy... I'm at this point too and I would love to meet a guy I was into and start slowly dating again. But congrats and enjoy the date. PS: Taken 2 is AWESOME!
Author headsashed Posted October 15, 2012 Author Posted October 15, 2012 Yayyy... I'm at this point too and I would love to meet a guy I was into and start slowly dating again. But congrats and enjoy the date. PS: Taken 2 is AWESOME! Thanx katzee,i loved part 1 and part 2 looks great. I said to myself before i went on any dates that i wil not chase anymore,be a doormat etc and ill just be the person i used to be,it worked so far lol,as much as yesterday went great i put the ball in her court when she left this morning,she contacted me tonight asking how my day went and ased about tomorrow,my reply made her smile ,when i say im not chasing i dont mean im being cold etc,im just guarding my heart,she obviousley likes me and i like her too so ill go wow her tomorrow with my usual charms,pitty i cant use them on geegirl hah. If ive not made sense i am sorry,ive hada few drinks,im jut happy things are goin good for me. Oh and before i go,chitown my good american friend,where are ya??
Author headsashed Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 Bad news is the date never happend tonight,she hurt her back at work and said she couldnt sit in the cinema in that pain,the good news is,she came to mine for a few hours instead so i know she wasnt lying or anything and it shows shes interested. She gave me a kiss as she left too and that felt great Were talking on facebook now so im sure shes interested in me,i suppose i cant fault her cos im a good looking lad haha,can tell my sense of humour is back woohoo.
Calico Posted October 17, 2012 Posted October 17, 2012 Bad news is the date never happend tonight,she hurt her back at work and said she couldnt sit in the cinema in that pain That's where you say, "No problem, babe! I'll be happy to lay next to you in your bed and keep you company!" Happy for you! You've come a long way and that's fantastic!
Author headsashed Posted October 17, 2012 Author Posted October 17, 2012 I actually said no problem,then she offered to come to my house instead. We just watched tv and had coffee,well i say we watched tv when really all we did was talk,we never shut up lol,no awkward silence either. I have come along way and im proud of myself for gettin to where i am,sticking to nc etc,i cant even remember the last time i spoke to my ex,i do see her probs 3-4 times per week though driving past ( we live on same street ). It actually doesnt even bother me anymore when i see her so thats another good sign that ive moved on lots. Id say im aboit 90% healed now woohoo,i never believed id be happy again,NC and time is what helped me,and what you do for yourself in that time. No its roll on 28th oct,my bday,im off in town with all my friends and i cant wait.
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