maddy56 Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 I was married for ten years but was with my husband for 14 years. We have two wonderful boys together. My husband and I have had a really rocky marriage. He was very immature and he didn't think about the future, he had no goals. He cheated on me once and I as much as I tried to forget what he did I couldn't. I caught him sex talking other woman and in the end I lost a lot of respect for him. We were constantly arguing, and I was always in a bad mood. My kids were being affected by all this. They didn't want to be in the same room with us. I met a guy in March of 2012 (i was still married to my husband) and we got a long real well. We had great conversation, he is mature, goal oriented, career oriented, no children, and was everything any woman would want. I started dating him and decided to leave my 14 year marriage for this man. He is the greatest thing that has happened to me. He is great with my kids, my family loves him and my friends adore him. However, I am still married to my husband. The divorce will be finalized by the end of this month, yet I feel sad and emotional. We didnt have a good marriage. We were both miserable and now that I am happy I cant help to feel that I could have made the marriage work but I think I did everything i could have. We went to counseling, we separated for a bit but we would go back to the same old thing. Is this normal what I am feeling?
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